You're way too harsh on yourself, and that combined with your lack of confidence is holding you back. As someone else mentioned, you don't look young at all in your profile picture. I reckon if you changed your thinking all of the added (and unnecessary) worries would go away.
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Feeling bad about showing interest in girls, for some reason... watch
- 03-02-2010 21:31
- 03-02-2010 21:41
You'll find girls way easier at a party or summin, just get chatting to them and peck them on the cheek, close to the mouth so if they want a kiss they can get it easily in clubs just dance really wild-like and keep laughing, it works! Or gets some attention at least lol
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- 03-02-2010 21:42
University was the first time I started going out - before then it was house parties. I've just never had much confidence in myself - I guess these feelings come from being seen as 'weird' in primary school, for no particular reason. Thus, I feel 16 rather than 18 due to the lack of experience. My flatmates are great, though, and I've managed to fit in with a lifestyle which I feel too young for. I'm like this (the shyness) everywhere, not just in clubs. Perhaps it's the times I've failed at trying to start relationships which have made me feel more nervous about messing things up in the future.