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    About a year before we met, my boyfriend had drunken sex with a random girl and they didn't use a condom. He didn't get an STI from her as I've been tested recently and am clean. However, what if he got her pregnant?? He says he didn't ejaculate inside her so it's really unlikely, but it's still possible surely..should I be worried?
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    He also needs to be tested to be honest, even if you're currently clean - some STDs are harder to transfer than others so he could have something which he's not passed on yet.

    And I reckon most girls going out and having random drunk sex would be on the pill
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    I don't even understand why you are worried.

    Your boyfriend had unprotected sex in the past.

    Most guys have. End of story.
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    No point worrying about pregnancy. But make sure he gets tested.

    EDIT: Also, if he had sex with you before telling you about his unprotected sex, AND he hasn't been tested, he's pretty scummy.
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    (Original post by NW86)
    I don't even understand why you are worried.

    Your boyfriend had unprotected sex in the past.

    Most guys have. End of story.
    This. If your going to be worried about every bf whos ever had unprotected sex I would book a regular appointment at the GUM clinic!
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    (Original post by Riderz)
    This. If your going to be worried about every bf whos ever had unprotected sex I would book a regular appointment at the GUM clinic!
    You should book a regular appointment at the GUM clinic anyway.

    Every six months, without fail.
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    (Original post by AshMcD)
    You should book a regular appointment at the GUM clinic anyway.

    Every six months, without fail.
    Doesn't that depend on what your sex life is like?
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    (Original post by Jelkin)
    No point worrying about pregnancy. But make sure he gets tested.

    EDIT: Also, if he had sex with you before telling you about his unprotected sex, AND he hasn't been tested, he's pretty scummy.

    Err, why is he scummy? We used a condom the first time we had sex, so even if he had an STD, he wouldn't have passed it on.
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    (Original post by Jelkin)
    Doesn't that depend on what your sex life is like?
    Well.. probably.

    A few years ago I hadn't had sex between appointments, and I still went.

    Force of habit I suppose.

    But yes, even if I'm in a relationship I still go every six months. As well as suggesting both parties get tested before getting into a relationship/having sex without a condom.
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    (Original post by AshMcD)
    You should book a regular appointment at the GUM clinic anyway.

    Every six months, without fail.
    Meh, you worry too much. If it starts to hurt get it looked at, til then it'll be reet.
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    It's alright. I'm sure he would know by now whether she got pregnant or not. If they were both drunken its likely that she sorted herself out in the morning (or she was on the pill, people who have random drunken sex and let a boy have sex with her without a condom normally have a "back up"). Any precum COULD have got her pregnant, but it is quite unlikely.
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    (Original post by Riderz)
    Meh, you worry too much. If it starts to hurt get it looked at, til then it'll be reet.
    I don't worry about it at all. I don't worry about my teeth either but I still go to the dentist every six months, and I'd much rather lose a tooth than become infertile.
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    (Original post by Jelkin)
    EDIT: Also, if he had sex with you before telling you about his unprotected sex, AND he hasn't been tested, he's pretty scummy.
    How the hell is that scummy. Its not the most romantic thing to bring up on a date is it?

    "Sooo..... yeah 3 months I savaged this drunken bird on a one night stand but didnt use a condom. Shall we have sex now?"
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    (Original post by munchkin88)
    Err, why is he scummy? We used a condom the first time we had sex, so even if he had an STD, he wouldn't have passed it on.
    Have you performed oral sex on him?
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    also HPV and herpes can be transferred even with a condom
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    lol OP get over yourself you weirdo

    I don't use a condom with my girlfriend. Feels much better.
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    Jesus. Big deal. It's not as if every act of unprotected sex guarantees you a dose or HIV.
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    okay but if, op, they had sex a YEAR before you met I think it might've become obvious she had been impregnanted.....
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    (Original post by ToastyCoke)
    lol OP get over yourself you weirdo

    I don't use a condom with my girlfriend. Feels much better.
    Thanks for sharing. So relevant to this thread.
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    Millions of people have unprotected sex. Fact. If your willing to risk it then remember this - if you dont wrap it up before you slap it up then your practically having sex with every single other person that your partner has had unprotected sex with. How does that feel ?? Also being drunk is NOT an excuse.
 
 
 
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