I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. our sex life isn't dull but I'm fed up of being turned down. It may be fair to say that I am a rather horny girl, but only because I find my bf really sexy. We don't always get many chances to be together but when we do I'm always up for it and quite a lot of the time he's not. He just turns round to me and tells me that he doesn't want me. Obviously this is rather upsetting and after frequent times of thinking I'm unattractive, it's something I've done or he's getting it elsewhere, I'm getting fed up.
I love him dearly but can't keep being put down constantly in this way as it's really damaging my self confidence.
I have tried spicing it up with sexy underwear but it hasn't worked as he seems to want nothing out of the ordinary when we do. I really don't know what else to do so any advice would be helpful.
I didn't really know who else to ask as none of my friends have this problem.
Does anyone use their degree?