I've already posted a similar thread but I have to rant and need advice.
A year ago when my boyfriend and I first slept together after a drunken night out, I asked him if he had been checked for STIs and he said he'd been tested and was clean. We used a condom and I was on the pill. However, once it turned into a relationship he said he hadn't actually been tested but was sure he was clean as he had only ever had protected sex (apart from one time when he had sex with a random girl from a club but was "sure she didn't have an STI because she was quite reserved and didn't seem like she slept around.")
I have now shouted at him for lying to me and asking why he told me he had been tested. He keeps saying he doesn't remember saying it because it was a long time ago, and I can't prove he said it - but I know for a fact he did. He is not the malicious type at all but I'm so angry that he didn't seem to care about my sexual health. He even says he didn't know you could catch an STI from oral sex and seems genuinely naive about the whole thing.
What should I do?
Just went crazy at my boyfriend for lying Watch
- Thread Starter
- 03-02-2010 20:21
- 03-02-2010 20:26
start taking anti-retrovirals
- 03-02-2010 20:28
cut his **** off
that or send him back to school for sex ed lessons
- 03-02-2010 20:31
Ok, you've done your shouting and he knows how unhappy you are about it. As long as he's apologised and is sorry then move on. To be fair, nearly all guys would have said yes when you posed the question imo (sex was within reach lol). Furthermore he owned up in the end when you got together as a couple when he didnt have to. He deserves some credit for that i think.
- 03-02-2010 20:32
Get tested if your so worried, you use a condom, the chances of him having one and it getting through is like 0.000001