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    Not of my own choosing. Problem is, i've been hurt badly by my infatuation with a girl who i never got the chance of being with, not of my own choosing either, circumstances just dictated that when i got the guts to approach her (which i found hard because i actually cared about what the outcome would be) something terrible happened to me.
    Trust me, the circumstances were ****, it was in the second year of college and she found out someone close to her was dying, trying it on with her amongst my own massive problem would've been immoral.


    On paper, i can get any girl i want. I am confident, fun to be around and i am not afraid to get what i want. I have a top degree (Law) which if i graduate with will land me a top career in a top London firm (meaning i'll also have to move away permanently). I know this sounds over confident but it just doesn't make me happy, i get most things i want but not what i REALLY want. She isn't even the best looking girl i could get, i just love her for her, its not healthy isn't it?

    Most weirdly, i still find myself emotionally attached to her and even with the girls i pull i imagine its her, its really a disease of my consciousness i feel.


    I just can't forget.
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    why don't u approach her again?
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    (Original post by Honey_89)
    why don't u approach her again?

    she's now at the other end of the country.
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    Try men.

    tl/dr sorry.
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    tricky one.....

    You have to ask urself, do u want ur career or the woman of your dreams?!

    i personally would choose career, only because you've worked so hard to get what you've nearly got, and whos to say everythin with this girl would be as good as your high flying job will be in london?!

    Why dont u try just being friends, long distant with this girl, to see how things go with getting to know one another, see if u grow to like each other even more than you already do?!
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    If I was you, I'd be a bit worried if the girls were attracted to me for my law degree and magic circle position

    My advice is: there's plenty more fish in the sea! Approach every new romantic situation as a fresh start, don't linger on old, stale, failed ones.
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    I don't think your problem is not being able to connect.

    You just seem to have already connected with someone, and be finding it difficult to get over it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    she's now at the other end of the country.
    One word facebook. Tell her how you feel. She might feel the same about you. It's worth a shot.
 
 
 
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