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    One night I did "things" with a friend from my block at uni (not sex). Since then I have realised that I like him more than I thought. The only thing is that I am very shy when it comes to talking to boys that I fancy, and that drunken night hasn't helped in my shyness - in fact it has made things quite awkward between us.

    I would like to pursue things with him but I think that the only way to do this is to take things further physically, and as I am shy, going about things in a "be friends first take it slow" kind of way will not work, it will just fizzle out.

    I would like to ask if sex can lead to a relationship? Have you had any experiences of sex leading to something beautiful? or does it just lead to nowhere? :woo:

    I have never had a proper relationship before and have never had sex.
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    Relationship/Dating first.
    Sex later.

    Sex first = Stupid.

    /Thread.
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    Probably won't respect you as much.
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    Sex before relationships is a nono.



    Thought I can't talk, really..
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    Oh I don't know, I've been with my wife now for over ten years and we met at a nightclub and I went home with her. Basically been together ever since, largely due to lots of alcohol on her part that night and me having decided that I didn't just want one night stands anymore prior to meeting I guess... IoW, it wasn't something that she normally did, and I was trying to kick the habit...



    And we've got two lovely girls now. So yes, something beautiful can definitely come of sex, children of course...
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    Freshers week, I slept with a guy I'd met a few days earlier (inb4 **** etc), one night turned into a few nights, then some dates and we ended up dating for over 3 months. Worked for me, although I wasn't looking for a relationship-it just kinda happened .

    OP, if you're prepared for it not working out as a relationship, then try sex it, but I think if you're hoping for a relationship and starting off with just sex he may get the wrong idea.


    ... also, imo if it's your first time you'll feel a lot more comfortable if it happens in a relationship, so just don't rush things if you're not ready
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    Sometimes it can.
    But then again, I'm ******* amazing in bed :awesome:
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    LoL the guys face looks like he's photobombing his own porno


    this reply seriously confirms the fact that im straight. meh. sorry other half of the population!
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    oh btw OP your title makes me click it and just type "Orgasm. It's beautiful, but not much to look at."
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    lol at the porn, mod has bothered to warn but not remove it
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    (Original post by Stomm)
    Oh I don't know, I've been with my wife now for over ten years and we met at a nightclub and I went home with her. Basically been together ever since, largely due to lots of alcohol on her part that night and me having decided that I didn't just want one night stands anymore prior to meeting I guess... IoW, it wasn't something that she normally did, and I was trying to kick the habit...



    And we've got two lovely girls now. So yes, something beautiful can definitely come of sex, children of course...
    time to leave tsR?
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    It worked for me but I definitely wasn't looking for it to happen, we're still in a relationship a year and a half afterwards though but I'd consider that lucky, I know what being shy is like but if you know this guy rather than it just being some random person a relationship might be a better way to go. But really it is your decision (and I definitely can't judge it, haha) so I wish you the best of luck whatever you do Maybe with him being your friend it could be awkward but you might be better having a relationship with someone you know as a friend as your first proper relationship
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    (Original post by somethingbeautiful)
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    I hope so?
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    Oh I don't know - don't plan it.

    My first time was with a guy I was in a relationship with, that I had known properly for about 2 weeks. We've been going out for 2 months now.

    I don't know if it'll work out the same for you though. If you take this route, be prepared to be let down.
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    On one hand, my mate met her boyfriend on a night out, wasted beyond belief and they woke up together the next morning. They've been together just over a year now.

    On the other hand, I ended up sleeping with a friend after a night out, we realised there was something between us and started seeing each other. But because the whole thing had started with sex, it carried on that way. In the end we finished it because it was moving way too fast for both of us and we weren't ready for it.
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    (Original post by Ken321)
    Relationship/Dating first.
    Sex later.

    Sex first = Stupid.

    /Thread.

    What a load of ****.

    I know of several people that are in relationships of well over 1 year that started with drunken hook-ups.
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    I hope so?
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    (Original post by somethingbeautiful)
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    I FOUND HER! LOOK!

    AND I DIDNT EVEN HAVE TO HAVE SEX...
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    Babies.
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    (Original post by Wild_Precious_Life)
    Babies.
    Based on the assumption that babies are beautiful. This, in most cases, is true, but I have seen cases in which it is not. :lolwut:
 
 
 
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