Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now (2 years this April) and we've been so attached to each other and loved each other loads in that time.
But recently we've broken up because she confessed to liking another guy. I asked why, and she said it's because he gives her the attention that I don't. But she admitted her mistake and keeps saying she needs to get away from him and that she could never be with him anyway.
But I don't think that's the case. They both work together so they always see each other, so she's always gonna like him. Fair play to her though, she's trying to find another job to get away from him, and she told me what she did, which was honest.
But now we're split up, we both agreed that we won't chat to each other for a few months and see how we feel at the end, maybe start all over. BUT, we've hardly gone a few hours without chatting to each other, let alone a few months. This is where I ask TSR, what would you do..
Not chat to her for a few months, make her miss me, and then get back together for a while? Then again, we may drift apart in that time, especially that she's working with that guy. This is sucha dilemma.
Also, her Facebook statuses always seem so happy and hyper, so it makes me think she's hacing more fun without me that she ever did with me.
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- Thread Starter
- 04-02-2010 12:50
- 04-02-2010 12:56
Her Facebook status' are probably a 'cover-up' for her true feelings.
Leave it for a while and see what happens, if she likes you then she'll come back.
- 04-02-2010 13:00
enjoy the time apart, if it's really meant to be then you will get back together, but put ALOT of consideration into it before you do, don't just do it on a whim, try and enjoy yourself and don't count on it happening
- Thread Starter
- 04-02-2010 13:23
x_Link_X, good point. Not sure if it's the case though, I really can't tell...
We're very attached to each other, so I think there's still a chance. So sad, we were even thinking of getting married later this year.