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    It's not unusual to be a virgin at 20 (I was 19 myself..) but it is unusual not to even have kissed a girl. Most people do this at like 12/13/14/15 that kind of age. But it doesn't really mean there's anything wrong with you. You just need to work hard to meet new people!
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    (Original post by A_master)
    Don't Learn from the A_master.
    :ditto:

    OP, the way you posted just kinda made me feel like you deem it to be a race :confused:
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    *cries* 21 and never kissed a girl (not gay either)
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    just don't worry and don't try too hard. Relax, enjoy your life, have fun, and eventually the girls will come to you.
    If you don't wana do it til you've met someone you don't feel weird with, then wait for it!
    Chances are it'l happen sooner than you think.

    I didn't til i was 18 and i thought that was late, I'm 21 now and still know a few virgins - in the end it's like, why worry so much, it's no big deal.
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    I wana know where all these never-kissed-a-girl guys are! I want one!

    I like teaching! x
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    I've never kissed a girl or had sex but I don't care I'm too busy plotting to take over the world MUAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
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    (Original post by unistudent1989)
    Hey, I am a 20 year old virgin. Never had a girlfriend. Never ever kissed a girl. My main problem is that I am very shy around girls, I look ok, go out and have loads of friends. Is this normal, What should I do ?
    You are not alone.

    I recently turned 21 and have also done absolutely nothing:
    1) No girlfriend ever
    2) Still a virgin
    3) Never kissed
    4) Never gone on a date
    5) Never asked a girl out (I suppose this one kind of explains my other four shortcomings)

    Its quite annoying to go to lectures and see the uni filled with gorgeous girls (of whom probably quite a few are single) and knowing that I am not currently with any of them.
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    There is nothing you can do...that is all....
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    Oh no the world is coming to an end because you are a twenty year old virgin :rolleyes:
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    Tbh if I were you I wouldn't worry.
    Just means you haven't met anyone decent yet.

    But don't just go out clubbing or whatever to pick up a girl to get laid. -.- Not cool.
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    (Original post by Rawr.ox)
    Tbh if I were you I wouldn't worry.
    Just means you haven't met anyone decent yet.

    But don't just go out clubbing or whatever to pick up a girl to get laid. -.- Not cool.
    yeh,yeh feminista
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    (Original post by unistudent1989)
    Hey, I am a 20 year old virgin. Never had a girlfriend. Never even kissed a girl. My main problem is that I am very shy around girls, I look ok, go out and have loads of friends. Is this normal, What should I do ?
    do you know what? that is 100% fine and you will be a virgin until you find the right person. in society being a virgin at 20 is seen as a bad thing... but personally i think it shows that you are a respecting sweet person. you are probably happy as you are but you feel under pressure to have sex and all that because of your friends which makes you feel unhappy and unwanted. you are not unwanted and you WILL lose your viginity and you will be happy once you literally accept yourself for who you are and be comfortable with it work with it. you will then build your confidence which will open doors for you in much more areas in life than just the physical stuff!
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    (Original post by unistudent1989)
    Hey, I am a 20 year old virgin. Never had a girlfriend. Never even kissed a girl. My main problem is that I am very shy around girls, I look ok, go out and have loads of friends. Is this normal, What should I do ?
    Its a bit unusual but not abnormal, theres plenty of girls like you too ie moi! Just stop looking and it'll hit yoou right out of the blue.... either that or you could go to a prostitute... just kidding
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    (Original post by unistudent1989)
    Hey, I am a 20 year old virgin. Never had a girlfriend. Never even kissed a girl. My main problem is that I am very shy around girls, I look ok, go out and have loads of friends. Is this normal, What should I do ?
    I dont think there is anything wrong with that. Im 19 and still a virgin. You shouldn't rush into something because evryone else around you is doing it. And its nt abnormal or that unusual because there are many people who havent had a relationship yet. What you could do is strike up a convo with a girl you like and see where it goes. But don't go in with the expectation of having sex or even making out. Just meet people and get to know them and then you can decide.
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    Act really cocky n generally awesome. Ive had a pretty fit girl tell me how vain I am only to later sleep with me :P They love it baby hahaha!
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    (Original post by Gemma :)!)
    It's not unusual to be a virgin at 20 (I was 19 myself..) but it is unusual not to even have kissed a girl. Most people do this at like 12/13/14/15 that kind of age. But it doesn't really mean there's anything wrong with you. You just need to work hard to meet new people!
    Not really he might have gone to an all boys school
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    The thing is, after the sexual revolution of the 1960's, sleeping around became seen as a normal thing and every person who is not doing this is regarded as abnormal and stupid.

    But wrong is wrong. It's just that people have introduced new words to make things look better, like plastic surgery. So what was called paramour in the past is now boyfriend, and mistress is now girlfriend..
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    just be yourself. I lost my V at 21 and I dont regret it cos it was a girl i loved. Dont lose it for the sake of it
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    One of my friends is still a virgin (nearly 21) but she wants a boyfriend so badly. She's been "seeing" about 2 people since starting uni, but they both "fizzled out" when she refused to sleep with them. Just do what you want, and dont be pressured into anything.
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    You don't need any help, it's perfectly fine. Don't listen to those who lost it 15 and just sleep around snogging and shagging every living thing thinking that's cool.
 
 
 
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