don't want relationship

Sorry for an annoying relationship shall-I-or-shalln't-I thread but I'm really stuck here so please bear with me.
There's a guy who likes me and has told me and other people on numerous occasions. He texts me quite a lot, often hinting at us getting together and stuff. I'm really confused about my feelings towards him though. When I first found out that he liked me I didn't have the same feelings towards him but as time has gone on and we have become closer as friends I have begun to doubt my feelings. He has asked me to go on a date when he returns from his holiday in Spain, and as of yet I have not said yes or no. The day he returns our whole group are going into town to celebrate another friend's birthday so I will see him then and he will expect an answer. I don't know what to do because I know that I do not want to get into a relationship at this stage of my life, I start university in 2 months and so does he - I'm moving up North and he's moving down South so we couldn't be further away. Plus I want uni to be a fresh start for me, I do not want to have a boyfriend elsewhere! I like this guy, sometimes I just want to hug and kiss him, and I get so jelous when other girls flirt with him but it would be unfair of me to get with him wouldn't it as I'm sure he wants a girlfriend, not just fun.
Any advice?

Reply 1

Harv616

"I start university in 2 months and so does he - I'm moving up North and he's moving down South so we couldn't be further away. Plus I want uni to be a fresh start for me, I do not want to have a boyfriend elsewhere! I like this guy, sometimes I just want to hug and kiss him, and I get so jelous when other girls flirt with him but it would be unfair of me to get with him wouldn't it as I'm sure he wants a girlfriend, not just fun."

Just tell him that and see what he says
good luck :smile:

Reply 2

Saree

I was in pretty much the same prediciment....regretted it. Confused my feeling and rushed into it. If you are not sure, don't even go there. :biggrin: