Girls... what do you look for in a guy?

theonehitwonder

and also, what do you think about interracial dating?

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Reply 1

Tyler Durden

mrt84

and also, what do you think about interracial dating?

Look here for answers. Also this sort of covers the interracial dating thing (and I am sure there are more if you search!)

lots of things...

I look for a guy who is cute, but I can't stand guys who know they're really good- looking and are arrogant. Personality is the most important thing. As for interracial dating, I see no problem with it, I'm a product of it myself.

Reply 4

Amlea

interracial dating...i'm ok!

yep i've got to agree personality is very important!

Reply 5

hypomania

interracial dating :biggrin:

I look for randomness to sum it up :smile:

Reply 6

tbm

For me personally, a guy has to have a great sense of humour, and the ability to make me smile. I dont like guys who constantly brag about how many girlfriends they've had and how many girls they've slept with.

Reply 7

saz_1989

There has to be a spark. We have to get on well and there needs to be attraction.

Reply 8

unfinished sympathy

.Em.

me as well, plus they've gotta be quite sultry and have an attitude of i don't give a **** what you think....hmmm

Reply 9

Fluffy

Honesty. No point in being with a cutie if he's a lying scum-sucking b@st@rd!

Reply 10

Lirael Abhorsen

yes this is quite well covered ground.. but yes personality, wit, compassion, honesty, not arrogant or promiscous or self centered or chavish. i see no problem with interracial dating, and especially think hispanic guys are :smile:

like gael garcia bernal from the motorcylce diaries. great film! :wink:

Reply 11

Gem

A guy with a pulse preferably :smile:

Reply 12

Gem

But seriously...someone who will make me laugh, is honest, loves me for who I am (i.e. not a Britney :p:

) not selfish, good personalty...and if he's tall with dark hair thats just a bonus :wink:

Interracial dating, I see nothing wrong with it, race shouldn't matter :smile:

I'm white and I think there are many guys of a different race who are gorgeous, Lemar, Will Smith, Shola Ameobi, oh loads :love:

Reply 13

rt6

* gemchicken

A guy with a pulse preferably :smile:

Nowadays girls want EVERYTHING! :biggrin:

Reply 14

midloon

I'd have to be physically attracted to them, but i dont go for stunning guys because i assume theyre arrogant. Shouldnt really... But yeah that and some wit and intelligence will do :biggrin:

And with interracial dating I'd have no problem with it. Only problem i could see is if your cultures are so different it causes rifts. Eg Im not religious in any way and think itd be hard for me to be with someone who is deeply religious because we'd have such opposing views on life. But then again Ive never been put in that situation and so am talking out of my arse :cool:

Reply 15

JoeCool_Lemming

Someone funny and who can carry a conversation :smile:

After that, it's pretty much negotiable :wink:

Interracial dating wouldn't bother me - although as midloon says, I'd find it hard to date someone who was really religious coz that doesn't really fit with my outlook.

Reply 16

Glory

interacial is no different to any other relationship type, i dated a dark handsome dutch guy a few years ago. It wasnt his race which was the problem it was the fact we were so far apart, if he had been english i think we would of had a future. But the distance caused him to be very jelious, thought i guess he probabily would of been jelious reguarless.

Reply 17

khil

Looks like religion is more of an issue than race is! I suppose it makes sense. I dated an atheist and well, let's say our views couldn't be more different! Made for plenty of disagreements and plenty of difference in the way we conduct ourselves, and what I saw as wrong he couldn't understand why... Yeh mixing religions up really doesn't work!

Interracial dating - got no problem with it. I assume my kids would be mixed in future anyway cus I'm Chinese and will probably marry an English guy. And my atheist ex is mixed, as is another guy I once fancied. I find mixes really cool! Never even noticed I found it rather sexy until I ended up dating one :biggrin:

Anyway what I look for in a guy - passion for God aka Christian (cus I'm one), all the typical qualities everyone looks for like caring, friendly, gentle, compassionate. Above all he's gotta be honest and loyal/faithful. And he's gotta be intelligent - intelligence ranks quite high with me. And preferbly the guy has a sense of mystery about him :biggrin:

so I wanna get to know him more. He's preferbly confident, has his own mind, but not selfish or arrogant - I don't mind a bit of stubbornness bit preferbly not loads or we'd clash all the time. Our values/morals have to be similar or we'll just disagree all the time. Someone who'll take charge but isn't over-dominant and is incredibly sweet/adorable in terms of personality :biggrin:

Little surprises and romantic things I love :p:

Passion and sincerity are also things I like. Top that all up with a large dorse of complete unpredictability and randomness :biggrin:

Other than those, physical qualities - he MUST be taller than me!!! I'm only 5'2'' after all! :p:

But tall guys in general they look better - 5'9'' onwards seems a good height. The rest with looks not sure I have a specific type - a cute smile and a gorgeous voice does it for me :biggrin:

Smiles are important. I prefer dark hair and light eyes, pale skin :smile:

Although these aren't as important as personality. The physical side would be the cream to top off the cake, really :p:

I don't mind much if I have the cake :biggrin:

Hmm I think that would be my dream guy :rolleyes:

not sure - just things off the top of my head. Oh and the chocolate sprinkles above it all would be if he was a guy who could impress me :wink:

in terms of ability and intelligence, since I'm not easily impressed :biggrin:

So if the guy is really knowledgeable about something I don't know about, that would be cool, or if he plays an instrument or speaks a foreign language :p:

and then if he's mixed, like half-English and something else :biggrin:

I ask for a lot, don't I!?

Reply 18

Chez88

I was looking for a good looking guy preferably dark brown hair, blue eyes, athletic and fit taller than me (not hard!) kind caring considerate, not into football or sprt watching (tho he can play it all) sexy but doesnt think ther gods gift to women good in bed but a virgin coz i was and its nices to loose it 2gether! sum1 hu remembers things and is as silly and random as me makes me laugh smile and have a gr8 time together and loves me for who i am! (i got all of that and more when i met my amazing boyfriend 11month ago! plus hes got nice muscles! :P! chez xXx

Reply 19

Mata

Well, I'm mixed-race (British/African) so I'm kind of for interracial dating. But I tend to go for white guys (I like blue eyes) and that is mostly all that's available in the wilds of south england.

I'm 5'10" so I like 'em at least my height, blue eyes are sooo gorgeous, lovely smile. Has to be funny, but I'm massively loud so a bit quieter than me or it would be like living in an auction house. Has to be intelligent, and is not allowed to let me walk all over him; must put up a fight and tell me to shut up once in a while. Talent is very sexy. So is good hair and political beliefs.