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    hey, please help, this is really getting me down! me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months, and are ridiculously in love. i find him completely attractive and want to have sex with him constantly.

    the problem is that i find it really hard to have sex several times in a row. generally we can have sex easily the first time, though my boyfriend usually goes down on me beforehand, so lubrication isn't a problem. however, subsequent times i am usually too dry to do it, even if i came during the sex. i am on the pill and we don't use condoms, and so after sex i usually go to the bathroom to sort myself out, which could be contributing to the problem, as i make very sure there's no, erm, 'seepage' as it were.

    we have sex several times a week, in fact i would love to do it more, because mentally i feel such intense desire for him and things are always exciting. i just feel sort of like a failure, as if my body isn't responding properly, as all my friends seem to be able to have sex multiple times in a day. the only time we've been able to is when i haven't gone to the bathroom and cleaned up after sex. so i was wondering if this is normal for girls, if anyone else feels like this? thank you
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    It's always ok to use lube and I suspect some of your friends are fibbing.

    As you have discovered, semen makes a very good (sometimes people find too good) lube when in the vagina. If you do not really need to get out of bed between times, don't.

    Does he go down on you on the second and subsequent times? If not..
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    Basically, what unprinted said.

    Lube is a good idea and you can get loads of different types so you can find one yous like =]

    xx
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    Lube is amazing, get some now!
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    If you want to have sex several times in one day, one time after the other. Then DONT clean up entirely, just clean the leakages.
    Don't worry.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you want to have sex several times in one day, one time after the other. Then DONT clean up entirely, just clean the leakages.
    Don't worry.
    Yep, you're probably over-cleaning yourself. It's not particularly healthy to do that anyways as you're taking away what your body is naturally producing.
 
 
 
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