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    Please keep anon.

    If someone you liked told you they liked you, but they weren't ready for a relationship because they were scared of hurting you, would you see that as something genuine or just a nice way of saying they're not interested?
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    Probably the latter to be honest, it depends on the person, and who they are to you/how close you were before the potential relationship thing came about.

    I got told that before, replied with 'I'm a big girl, I'm sure I can look after myself' and then got properly rejected :sad:
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    Scared of hurting you?
    Maybe they think that you like them more than they like you, so what could seem like short term fun to them could potentially cause you a lot of hurt.

    Guy or girl may i ask ?
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Probably the latter to be honest, it depends on the person, and who they are to you/how close you were before the potential relationship thing came about.
    We were seeing each other briefly. Everything was great and we had no problems. Just things moved a bit fast.
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    (Original post by steph_anie_x)
    Guy or girl may i ask ?
    He's the guy, I'm the girl.
    I'll admit it now before anyone says it, I was probably (and properly still am) more into him than he was with me. Which is never a good thing, I know. We still talk a lot though, which probably doesn't help with the over thinking of things. But we're still good, and we both said we don't want to just forget about that.
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    It's a really lame cliché.
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    I would assume that it prob means that they aren't interested in a realtionship and that could be in general or with you. Either way I would just move on, which I know is easy to say and hard to do, but you'll find someone soon who is ready for being in a realtionship with you
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    Someone said the same thing to me not so long ago. I still haven't figured it out yet. But its best to move on and not dwell
 
 
 
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