Basically i've got a problem. Me and a very close mate have recently got very close. Ive been unsure whether i like her of this other girl for a couple of weeks, and so have been holding back on making a move. Today i was round her house and we were on the sofa then we kinda got really close and hugged, and then we snogged. It felt really right and i was happy about it. Then we kissed and snogged some more, i left, then we went out later for a friends 18th, allowed me to get drunk, cause i knew one of my mates was gunna try and put us together while i was drunk, and so now we're a couple .
But i have 3 problems really. The 1st is that she has recently (a month ago) been dumped by her boyfriend, and he is looking to tell people an excuse why he ended it. And he seems intent on ruining my life for some very complicated reason about a band. And he already told people that me and the girls close friendship caused the break up, which they didn't believe but he's really searching for something to destroy any sort of respect people have for me. What do i do about him if this is to continue?
The 2nd is that i like this other girl and suddenly i made a choice. It wouldn't be a problem to most people but it was my 1st kiss and while i dont regret it, im wondering if it was a wise thing to do so suddenly
The 3rd thing is that is it ok to like another girl while in a relationship? or should i brake it off til i clear my head?
Sorry for the essay, im just a little messed up atm :/
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