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    Hey all....so I'll keep it brief; I do quite well for female attention and numbers when I'm out. However, when I've contacted them to meet up I don't get a reply (this has happened quite a few times). Either that or go out once or twice and then drop contact....any ideas- would appreciate a female perspective but obviously lads are welcome to comment also :-)

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    Because bars and clubs are the worst place to get numbers for the following reasons:
    • When you're out and you've had a drink, an average looking guy can be transformed into Mr Perfect.
    • If you've had a few drinks and you're out with the girls, there's little competitions going on among us for who gets the most numbers - you might have been victim to that a few times.
    • If you've had a drink, you're likely to be more flattered than usual if you get asked for your number.
    • Some girls don't know how to say 'sorry, but I don't want to give you my number.'
    • Sometimes people give out fake numbers?


    Also, when you're on a night out you might think you're interested but by the time you've had a few hours sleep and some breakfast to sober you up, you realise you're not that bothered after all.

    Harsh reality. Sorry.
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Because bars and clubs are the worst place to get numbers for the following reasons:
    • When you're out and you've had a drink, an average looking guy can be transformed into Mr Perfect.
    • If you've had a few drinks and you're out with the girls, there's little competitions going on among us for who gets the most numbers - you might have been victim to that a few times.
    • If you've had a drink, you're likely to be more flattered than usual if you get asked for your number.
    • Some girls don't know how to say 'sorry, but I don't want to give you my number.'
    • Sometimes people give out fake numbers?


    Also, when you're on a night out you might think you're interested but by the time you've had a few hours sleep and some breakfast to sober you up, you realise you're not that bothered after all.

    Harsh reality. Sorry.
    This. :yep:
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Because bars and clubs are the worst place to get numbers for the following reasons:
    • When you're out and you've had a drink, an average looking guy can be transformed into Mr Perfect.
    • If you've had a few drinks and you're out with the girls, there's little competitions going on among us for who gets the most numbers - you might have been victim to that a few times.
    • If you've had a drink, you're likely to be more flattered than usual if you get asked for your number.
    • Some girls don't know how to say 'sorry, but I don't want to give you my number.'
    • Sometimes people give out fake numbers?


    Also, when you're on a night out you might think you're interested but by the time you've had a few hours sleep and some breakfast to sober you up, you realise you're not that bothered after all.


    Harsh reality. Sorry.


    Hi there,

    Thanks for your input - appreciate you honesty. mmmm I can see where you are coming from but seriously this has happened quite a few times now so thinking it's either me or the type of girl I'm going for? not sure about fake numbers as it's usually them asking for mine. could see the comp thing happening a few times maybe. as far as the average looking guy lol like I said appreciate your honesty but most of the time I go out I get told Im beautiful (I hate this btw!) and have a perfect body (tried putting this without sounding like a stuck up tw*t-apologies if it comes across like that! )

    Thanks for you comments ladies...any others would be appreciated.
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    sorry forgot to add....do you think it could be confidence thats scaring them off, been called a player quite a lot (im sooo not) and worried I may have picked up a bit of a rep :-(
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    can anyone else help!?
 
 
 
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