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    I won't go into massive detail..
    I slept with a friend of a friend, after meeting and talking intensely for a few weeks. It's unlike me, but i did it because he gave me a pretence that he felt something quite real for me and could make something-ish of it, and i felt the same. this was a few days ago, and he's been making the effort to talk to me often since, but tonight he said that - i did not realise he was not looking for any sort of relationship and it was just sex. and then hasn't communicated any further.

    I'm not going to chase after him now, he's made himself clear. I guess i just want to know if people have been in similar situations, and what they did to help them get over it. I feel quite emotional at the moment - but dont feel like i should be.

    Anyway, any kind of advice would be appreciated, thankyou.
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    unless a guy explicitly says hes looking for a relationship you just assume that theyre after sex. :yep:
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    I had a long distence friend who i spoke to about everything for 4 years. When i went to see her, i slept with her on the first day (i was there for 3) when i came home after an hour flight, she had got a new boyfriend and i havent really spoken to her since (not at all in the last year or so)

    Just think of it as practice... From the above it looks like i was obviosly shyt it bed =/
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    (Original post by SFsuck)
    I had a long distence friend who i spoke to about everything for 4 years. When i went to see her, i slept with her on the first day (i was there for 3) when i came home after an hour flight, she had got a new boyfriend and i havent really spoken to her since (not at all in the last year or so)

    Just think of it as practice... From the above it looks like i was obviosly shyt it bed =/
    what a shlag!
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    i know right!
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    did you never say anything to her?
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    yea, i called her a ***** and got over it lol
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    Good man
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    Girls use guys too, and you cant expect a guy to get into a relationship with you after you have sex with him. I think if you want to avoid being used again, wait until you are in a good relationship to have sex. Unless you like to be used that is
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    Girls use guys too, and you cant expect a guy to get into a relationship with you after you have sex with him. I think if you want to avoid being used again, wait until you are in a good relationship to have sex. Unless you like to be used that is
    this makes a lot of sense, thankyou!
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    legendxo you have all the answers for me today lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I won't go into massive detail..
    I slept with a friend of a friend, after meeting and talking intensely for a few weeks. It's unlike me, but i did it because he gave me a pretence that he felt something quite real for me and could make something-ish of it, and i felt the same. this was a few days ago, and he's been making the effort to talk to me often since, but tonight he said that - i did not realise he was not looking for any sort of relationship and it was just sex. and then hasn't communicated any further.

    I'm not going to chase after him now, he's made himself clear. I guess i just want to know if people have been in similar situations, and what they did to help them get over it. I feel quite emotional at the moment - but dont feel like i should be.

    Anyway, any kind of advice would be appreciated, thankyou.
    cool i tell ****s that all the time, sounds like a good lad
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    (Original post by Ginger_Bap)
    cool i tell ****s that all the time, sounds like a good lad
    like she cares what gingernuts says...
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    (Original post by SFsuck)
    yea, i called her a ***** and got over it lol
    Bravo old chap. :hat:
 
 
 
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