Me and my boyfriend have just started goin out a month ago and at the weekend there we tried to have sex. im not a virgin, iv slept with 2 guys but its been over a year since iv slept with anyone. He isnt a virgin either. Well when he went to put it in it wouldnt fit? i dont understand why because i have been with people before. I was really nervous this time though so could that have anything to do with it? or am i too tight?
i need help ASAP Watch
- Thread Starter
- 08-02-2010 14:58
- 08-02-2010 20:20
you need to be totally relaxed. make sure there is lots of foreplay. also try lube if that doesnt work
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(Original post by Anonymous)
- 08-02-2010 22:27
I was really nervous this time though so could that have anything to do with it?
- 10-02-2010 23:56
Having sex while nervous=never fun!
make sure you are relaxed around the guy before you start having sex with him.
- 11-02-2010 19:20
I have pretty much been in the same situation as you recently, its most likely nerves. Just try and relax (I know its difficult sometimes!) and make sure u have lots of foreplay, also make sure he goes slowly, might hurt a bit at first but you'll soon loosen up!
- 15-02-2010 15:50
ok thanks guys