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    Me and my boyfriend have just started goin out a month ago and at the weekend there we tried to have sex. im not a virgin, iv slept with 2 guys but its been over a year since iv slept with anyone. He isnt a virgin either. Well when he went to put it in it wouldnt fit? i dont understand why because i have been with people before. I was really nervous this time though so could that have anything to do with it? or am i too tight?
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    you need to be totally relaxed. make sure there is lots of foreplay. also try lube if that doesnt work
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    I was really nervous this time though so could that have anything to do with it?
    This. A tense vagina is a tight vagina.
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    Having sex while nervous=never fun!
    make sure you are relaxed around the guy before you start having sex with him.
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    I have pretty much been in the same situation as you recently, its most likely nerves. Just try and relax (I know its difficult sometimes!) and make sure u have lots of foreplay, also make sure he goes slowly, might hurt a bit at first but you'll soon loosen up!
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    ok thanks guys
 
 
 
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