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    I feel my life reminds me of a comment made in She's All That, where the geeky girl goes to a big party then gets bullied and says that is the reason why she never comes to events like this, and gets told the reason is shes not invited.

    What I am getting at is I am 27 and a half and single, had 1 girlfriend in my life that lasted 3 months and was more a sex buddies thing(since she never slept over and never came down at weekends) and had sex last 2 years ago with a one night stand with a woman in her 40's who did nothing for me as she wanted things done her way.

    Going back to the bit I wrote about, the reason why I say its like the comment from the movie is I am hugely nervous and even when I did get a lot of female attention I freaked out, now I "want" it but never get any but still dont feel comfortable going out and getting it so think I am sabotaging myself.

    Also because I feel low I cannot get an erection and at best get semi, I can honestly say the last time I was fully erect was 6 years ago and even then it was the first time in 6 months as I have in the past lost chances with a girl as I havent had a stiffy!(as been in a club had a girl flirt then feel my trousers and then think I am not interested and walk off)

    I want to take one to see that I can actually get "hard" and not semi to work out how well endowed I am as I reckon when I am, I get to around 8 inches but when semi I would be lucky to get 3-4 because I cant get exited past pre ***.

    So shall I?
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    sure
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    not gonna kill you is it....................
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    :lolwut: at this thread.
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    (Original post by bigjoebob90)
    :lolwut: at this thread.
    Why do you think that?
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    Well, look at the side effects -- they may well affect your decision. Discuss the problem with your doctor first, they're used to / trained for helping people with sensitive issues like this, and they may even be able to offer other potential solutions. Besides, you don't want to buy Viagra on the net; I suspect that it'd be akin to purchasing meat from Hannibal (the cannibal, not the Roman general -- though I wouldn't necessarily want his elephant steaks either).
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    (Original post by bigjoebob90)
    You are a 27 year old guy who has as far as i can tell had only like 2 - 3 relationships.

    And you think that the cause of your fail is your tiny ****?

    Well let me put you straight.

    You dont need viagra.

    Try this :mob:

    No, the reason why I havent had a relationship in the last few years is because a family member was murdered and had to go through 2 years or so of finding suspect, court cases etc then took a while to get better.

    And no my **** isnt tiny just has problems getting it up.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No, the reason why I havent had a relationship in the last few years is because a family member was murdered and had to go through 2 years or so of finding suspect, court cases etc then took a while to get better.

    And no my **** isnt tiny just has problems getting it up.
    Mate either way, i fully recommend the link.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I feel my life reminds me of a comment made in She's All That, where the geeky girl goes to a big party then gets bullied and says that is the reason why she never comes to events like this, and gets told the reason is shes not invited.

    What I am getting at is I am 27 and a half and single, had 1 girlfriend in my life that lasted 3 months and was more a sex buddies thing(since she never slept over and never came down at weekends) and had sex last 2 years ago with a one night stand with a woman in her 40's who did nothing for me as she wanted things done her way.

    Going back to the bit I wrote about, the reason why I say its like the comment from the movie is I am hugely nervous and even when I did get a lot of female attention I freaked out, now I "want" it but never get any but still dont feel comfortable going out and getting it so think I am sabotaging myself.

    Also because I feel low I cannot get an erection and at best get semi, I can honestly say the last time I was fully erect was 6 years ago and even then it was the first time in 6 months as I have in the past lost chances with a girl as I havent had a stiffy!(as been in a club had a girl flirt then feel my trousers and then think I am not interested and walk off)

    I want to take one to see that I can actually get "hard" and not semi to work out how well endowed I am as I reckon when I am, I get to around 8 inches but when semi I would be lucky to get 3-4 because I cant get exited past pre ***.

    So shall I?
    As Jismith1989 said; it would be better to go to a doctor than ask for advice on a forum. There could be an underlying health problem that needs treating. Maybe making a few lifestyle changes like exercise or diet could help.

    Good luck.
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    (Original post by bigjoebob90)
    You are a 27 year old guy who has as far as i can tell had only like 2 - 3 relationships.

    And you think that the cause of your fail is your tiny ****?

    Well let me put you straight.

    You dont need viagra.

    Try this :mob:

    What the **** !!

    It's not that a man cannot live without girls. There are even other things in life, you know?
    I'm almost as old as the OP and I've had only a couple of girls. But I don't give a ****, I just **** off and I'm alright.
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    No male who's 25+ who hardly gets women is 'alright'. You're dying inside mate. Should have manned up when you were younger
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    So what do you do when you masturbate? Try doing that? And do you actually get properly aroused?
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    so you haven't had an erection in 6 years..you haven't masturbated in 6 years either?

    tbh, as its not old age that's causing this I think it's worth going to the gp about it, from what you've said it could be a number of things causing this and although viagra could be a good short term fix, something tackling the cause would be much better for the long term.
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    Lol.. What are you gonna do with viagra? Walk into a club with a raging boner?
    Sounds like you've had a hard time with your successes and it's putting you down, and that could be what's stopping you getting the strong erections.. You need to sort out your problems face on, work through your insecurities and don't pressure yourself into thinking every situation with women depends on you getting a boner. You'll start to get your erections back once you're more happy about yourself.. and then. It's Party Time :p:
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    1) cut out junk food
    2) avoid processed carbs (generally: anything white e.g. bread, pasta, potato)
    3) do some form of cardiovascular exercise for at least 30 mins a day
    2) + (3): low bodyfat + good cardiovascular system = good blood flow.
    4) go to your doctor and order a blood test to look for any vitamin/mineral deficiencies (particularly zinc)
    5) try maca

    (Original post by wikipedia)

    Small-scale clinical trials performed in men have shown that maca extracts can heighten libido and improve semen quality,[20][21] though no studies have been performed on men with sexual dysfunction or infertility. Maca does not affect sex hormone levels in humans, and has not been shown to act on hormones directly. It has been presumed that maca's hormone-normalizing effects may be due to the root's unique nutritional profile, which provides optimum levels of nutrients utilized by the body's endocrine system.[22] In addition, maca has been shown to increase mating behavior in male mice and rats.[23]
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    (Original post by popman)
    1) cut out junk food
    2) avoid processed carbs (generally: anything white e.g. bread, pasta, potato)
    3) do some form of cardiovascular exercise for at least 30 mins a day
    2) + (3): low bodyfat + good cardiovascular system = good blood flow.
    4) go to your doctor and order a blood test to look for any vitamin/mineral deficiencies (particularly zinc)
    5) try maca
    Regularly exercising one's PC (pubococcygeus) muscle (otherwise known as Kegel exercises) has been proven to improve erectile dysfunction in a majority of cases, too. You may have to look it up on the interweb, if you have no idea what I'm talking about.

    Of course, the issue is almost definitely largely psychological, so there may be no quick-fix.
 
 
 
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