I have a long distance relationship going with my girlfriend for various reasons.
To cut a long story short, I know she loves me, but from what I know of her, I know she has weak willpower, and often acts out of character when drunk.
She swears blind she'd never cheat, but I just can't get the thought of my head that she might and it drives me crazy....
Is this a natural feeling? Am I being paranoid?
Surely if I can't trust her the relationship is doomed, right?
She has stressed that she is more worried about me cheating, and assures me she never would.
At the end of the day, I adore her, and don't want to break this off, but surely this is just a disaster if I can't trust her?
Am I paranoid about a long distance relationship? Watch
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Last edited by Mr Dark; 08-02-2010 at 23:15.
- 08-02-2010 23:12
- 09-02-2010 03:10
You need to have a long hard conversation with her about this, and make sure you get plenty of reassurances.
I'm kind of going throuhg the same thing right now, but perhaps a little worse as i actually caught my boyfriend on a dating website...
i lost the trust, but he's been slowly trying to build it back.
You've got to ask yourself the question : how much will your insecurities affect the relationship? If you become needy and constantly worrying, it's not healthy for you or her, and that's when you need to either try your hardest to put it aside, or break up.