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    right this is embarassing but here we go..!

    i split with my bf few months ago.
    still love him.
    really hard to get over him.
    didnt want to go out there and have sex with other people until i felt i was properly over him.
    this took a while but i still needed orgasms!
    started using dildos.
    now im pretty much over him and i think im ready to have sex with guys again but im worried my vagina is loose but dont know because ive never compared myself to another girls! ha.
    so basically how wide is normal?!
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    What do you mean how wide is it? You can get a baby out, but you cant park your car in there. Is that of any use? Unless you've given birth or something, you will be fine.
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    Well, it's stretchy?

    If you're really paranoid, do some pelvic floor exercises.
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    Erm.... you do realise that the vagina is a muscle, right?
    Yeah, it stretches, but it goes back! Using a dildo isn't going to make you "feel" worse when having sex!

    Look up pelvic floor exercises if you really want to do exercises that will help.
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    (Original post by Daydreamer_13)
    Erm.... you do realise that the vagina is a muscle, right?
    Yeah, it stretches, but it goes back! Using a dildo isn't going to make you "feel" worse when having sex!

    Look up pelvic floor exercises if you really want to do exercises that will help.
    kegels. good idea.
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    *Throw a marsbar down a corridor*

    This
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    I also am paranoid about this, my partner says i am fine, however since having a baby a few years ago i do not feel as much friction and am much more lubricated than i was previously...i'd say you are probably fine!

    Without being too graphic, do you feel as thou the dildo "fills you up"? is so then you defo not loose!

    oh and most girls haven't compared themselves to other girls ha!
 
 
 
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