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An indian and an white girl

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I REALLY like this indian guy and we are just starting to get to know each other. I'm just worried about what his family will think about me. Has anyone gone out with an indian guy/girl and had any problems?

Reply 1

Saree

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I think if they would be unhappy, I doubt he'd tell his parents! :biggrin:

Reply 2

SamTheMan

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No only white guy and a girl of indian origin is alright.

Reply 3

Saree

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SamTheMan

No only white guy and a girl of indian origin is alright.

Says who?

Reply 4

What's Chico Time Precious?

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Burn the witch?

Burn burn burn :evil:

Reply 5

GarageMc

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Be prepared to suck up and impress his parents. Trust me.

Reply 6

Saree

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I personally don't have any problems with mixed faith/religions/race etc relationships. However, some by society are looked upon as weird! You might find that his parents are unhappy...but he doesn't have to tell them! :biggrin:

Reply 7

Pegasus

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Amlea

I REALLY like this indian guy and we are just starting to get to know each other. I'm just worried about what his family will think about me. Has anyone gone out with an indian guy/girl and had any problems?

It depends from family to family...if his family are more religious than they might be unhappy with the situation as they would prefer him to be going out with Hindu /Sikh/ whatever (I'm assuming you're none of these). If not they may be a little dubious at first anyway if they feel strongly about culture but could get used to it if they think you are serious.

But like I said it really depends on the individual's family I know some Indian families who would have no problem whatsoever with this.

Reply 8

SamTheMan

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Saree

Says who?

says me, just trying to spark off a controversial discussion.

Reply 9

Saree

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SamTheMan

says me, just trying to spark off a controversial discussion.

Oh ok!

Reply 10

heminder

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Amlea

I REALLY like this indian guy and we are just starting to get to know each other. I'm just worried about what his family will think about me. Has anyone gone out with an indian guy/girl and had any problems?

i'm indian...
anyways, it much depends how stirct(old) his parents are. most indian parents tend to do everything by the book, but that's from my experience. also depends on what religion his parents are. ie: hindu/sikh/etc...

Reply 11

SamTheMan

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Pegasus

It depends from family to family...if his family are more religious than they might be unhappy with the situation as they would prefer him to be going out with Hindu /Sikh/ whatever (I'm assuming you're none of these). If not they may be a little dubious at first anyway if they feel strongly about culture but could get used to it if they think you are serious.

But like I said it really depends on the individual's family I know some Indian families who would have no problem whatsoever with this.

I don't think it's a question of being religious. It's a question of being traditional or tolerant.
Although I guess the two can be related.

Reply 12

Annik

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my family would be fine with me going out with a white boy.. As they are with my sisters bf.. (But he must have good job prospects.. no joke :redface:

)

Reply 13

goku999

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one of my indian friends has a white girlfriend and they are getting along great.
I wouldn't think their parents would mind.

Reply 14

nas7232

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The majority of asian families will not be pleased imo. I can only think of 1 out of 80 ish that would accept it after a huge arguement/fight. You should ask him about it, maybe he isn't too tight with his family? or he is an exception. Best off asking him though!

Reply 15

Annik

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actually my parents said i can marry anyone.. unless they are muslim :rolleyes:

(BTW, I have nothing personally against muslims.. just my 'rents point of view)

Reply 16

Freeway

doesnt islam say that muslims can only marry muslims?

Reply 17

fleur-de-lis

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Freeway

doesnt islam say that muslims can only marry muslims?

I think that Muslims can marry whoever is willing to become a muslim.

Reply 18

manps

Im an indian lad and i've only had white gf's in my life so far (but only because i dont seem to fancy an asian girls :confused:

) anywaaaaay, id never tell my mum or dad otherwise i would suffer a severe beating (no joke) but my gf's havent minded though. just a bit odd. i wana get with an indian girl now, just to see the difference...suppose i'l have to start looking.......

Reply 19

hypomania

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Hey your letter thing worked Amlea :biggrin:

!

You don't have to tell his parents you're dating :wink:

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