i booked an escort for next week. at first i booked it as a joke, then when i got confirmation and spoke to the escort my mind started to change. i dont wont to make a mistake that i will regret for the rest of my life. i really need advice whether to go through with it. i really cant talk to anyone, tsr is the only place i can come true and not get killed, please give advice.
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- Thread Starter
- 09-02-2010 20:09
- 09-02-2010 21:12
What are your reasons for going through with it?
Be honest, you haven't booked an escort, have you. You've booked an appointment with a prostitute.
- 09-02-2010 21:18
A joke? That only you're in on?
Don't kid yourself. You want sex with a hooker.
- 09-02-2010 21:19
there must be a reason why you have booked it in the first place rather than just for a joke- be honest with yourself... If you really did intend not to use an escort then you would not have gotten to the stage that you are at now.. Dont misundersatnd what I am saying though- I am all for people doing whatever they wish as long as it doesnt effect others! Itsa entirely up 2 you what tou chose to do and if you decide to go through with it it is not something that you have to regret for the rest of your life! Life is for living and if you do decide to go through with it put it down to a life experience and if you dont well again life experience- dont book an escort ever again!!!
- 09-02-2010 21:24
Don't worry about it my mates went up London drinking the other day and ended up in Soho so you can probably guess they landed up with a hooker.
- 09-02-2010 21:45
There are a lot of dynamics going on with these sorts of things and I don't think anyone can really answer this question for you - this is a pretty isolated decision. In a moral sense, it's very much yours to make. But in a practical sense, I have to say I can't understand the stigma some people attach to it - it is sex. If it isn't immediately available through a relationship or FWB then it seems quite a logical route; it is an awfully crass and perhaps overly simplistic analogy but when a human being needs something that creates economy, and that economy is serviced by professionals. In that sense, a very raw sense, it is a matter of transaction. We could get involved in the wider moral ramifications but it would take up a thread on its own (as indeed it has in here on numerous occasions). It does not make much sense to me, I have to say that, that we are not more liberal with this than we are in so many other things. It almost smacks of repression; societal demands have not caught up with basic individual demands imo. As long as it is safe and two consenting adults are engaged in it, then I cannot see the practical issue.
If it's your first time, that again brings in other dynamics. The following is a caveat in case you are; obviously I don't know. I can think of hypothetical responses from two such friends who have wildly differing views on that - one being an emphatic first time with an escort as essential, as they are professionals able to make the environment for you much more controlled and realistic. It was a described as an "educational perspective." I can see merit in that. However, I also know someone who would be horrified that your first time is not with someone very special to you in a concrete relationship, obviously putting the emphasis on not sexual mechanics but emotion. So, the two probably give you something of a window if that's your situation - do you need to make love more than you need to have sex, or vice versa? There is a difference, in for a virgin one would think a critical element of the decision.
- 09-02-2010 21:50
It's not really a huge deal is it (:
Just do what you feel is right.
- 09-02-2010 21:51
If you're a virgin then yes why not.
If you've had sex before then...well...you're a guy, so yes why not.
- 09-02-2010 21:51
Probably alot cheaper than having a girlfriend/boyfriend.
- 09-02-2010 21:57
The well priced escorts look far better than any ordinary girls do anyway, sizzling bodies, big boobs and most importantly experts in sex...so yeah you get what you pay for.
If you don't find sex to be some king of 'proving your unconditional love' thing then go for it..it's really not difficult for those who don't think sex as a big deal.
- 09-02-2010 21:57
Go for it mate,
But to be honest would be cheaper to go to a club and look for the fattest, ugliest and most drunk girl and take her home, always works for me