Help

i wanna find a bf which is the best way to gobout it i did chat rooms but got alot of weirdos and pervs can any one help
im so lonly

thank
u

Reply 1

Dramatic Star

To begin with, I'm not convinced that the internet is the best way to find a future partner. Don't get me wrong, there are some decent guys out there on the net, but there are also a lot of wierdo's! Best thing to do is to take your time. Go out; get friends to introduce you to their other friends, etc. Don't rush into anything. Please try not to use chatrooms as a dating method, it just isn't safe.

Reply 2

Policingman

random_dude_66

i wanna find a bf which is the best way to gobout it i did chat rooms but got alot of weirdos and pervs can any one help
im so lonly

thank
u

okay firstly if you dont kno how to go about it, i dont think your ready..

i would seriously suggest you dont try the internet for a boy friend!!!

how old are you?

_Cr

Reply 3

Suzie

Well i dont know what your perspective on relationships are but ive always already known my ex-bfs as i had previously been friends with them all... but you could try joining clubs etc. depending on age go to nightclubs and see if you can develop a friendship with a guy you meet. I dont suggest the net though!!!

Reply 4

random_dude_66

im 16 and no im not using the net again

Reply 5

Dramatic Star

Good. Also 16 is still young. Don't be set on finding a boyfriend. Go out, have fun & who knows.... you might meet someone when you least expect it! :smile:

Reply 6

random_dude_66

im just feeling really lonly and unwanted at the moment mylife is just falling apart

Reply 7

cleas001

jUST FIND SOMEONE U FANCY OR LIKE THE LOOK OF- GO UP TO THEM- CHAT- IF THERE NICE THEY WILLL CHAT BACK!!! TALK TO A FEW GUYS AND SEE HOW IT GOES- THE INITIATION OF A BEGINNING COVERSTION IS THE MOST DIFFICULT!- JUST ASK THEM WHAT THEYVE BEEN UP 2 (THIS WILL BE ESPECIALLY GOOD AS ITS THE SUMMER) THEN JUST TALK- LITTLE AND OFTEN- UL KNOW IF YOU COULD BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM AFTER TALKING JUST A FEW TIMES!!!! - DONT SETTLE FOR SECOND BEST THO. KEEP LOOKING! AND DONT APPEAR DESPERATE (THATS SOUNDS HARSH BUT IS SOOO TRUE!)... BOYFRIENDS CAN BE RUBBISH THO- A FEW WEEKS OF FUN THEN U MITE WANT OUT- IF YOU HAVE GOOD FRIENDS THEY CAN MORE THEN MAKE UP FOR NOT HAVING A BOYFRIEND. UNLESS ITS A SEX THING????- IN WHICH CASE A DILDO AND A RAUNCY BOOK COULD BE THE SOUTION!

Reply 8

goku999

Dont use chat rooms as ou never know who is on the other side of the line.
I would jus go out see new people, meet new people, talk to new people(u find attractive)
if you go to school, surely there are some lads out there you are interested in.

Reply 9

-TMG-

Yeah I found the EX in a chatroom. She's a chuffin psycho, compulsize liar and has Borderline Personality Disorder, diagnosed by me. I think a lot of people in chat rooms are like that, either weird or very ugly hehe.

But anyway I'll be your boyfriend. :biggrin:

LOL third time tonight.

Seriously though, go out and find one. Or even better DON'T. You will most likely be happier on your own, as I am. I will get another gf but not for a while cos they're too much trouble.

Don't get upset about it, have fun on your own.

Reply 10

Mark S

Trigger would probably argue this if she were here, but i think the internet suck where finding love is concerned, especially chat rooms.

Reply 11

Jonatan

-TMG-

Seriously though, go out and find one. Or even better DON'T. You will most likely be happier on your own, as I am. I will get another gf but not for a while cos they're too much trouble.

If I may rewright that a little:
"Or even better DON'T. You will most likely fidn teh love of your lfie when you aint searching for him. At first I never expected that my girlfriend wanted to date me and we were just friends, then things sort of developed from there... "

A bit mroe romantic perhaps ? :p: