Girl's diet making Me cry

I Am going out with The Love of My Life, and we are soon to be going on to our Second Year together. She is not fat what so ever. The thing is she never eats any thing except fruit and vegetable, even when she is at Her own house. She is skinny, and now her diet has developed to an extent where she has unhealthy bags under her eyes. When we talk about having children she tells Me that she does not want to have any because they will make her look fat. I Am constantly telling her the Truth, that she is Beautiful, that she has an Amazing body, Amazing Bum and yet she has chosen to ignore Me all this time. She says that she Loves Me, yet when We are sitting there in front of My Mother, and I propose a certain question, My Mother goes she would choose the diet over you. She has suffered from bullemia before, and yet she thinks that this diet thing of hers is perfectly healthy and normal. Yet Today Me and My Mother were telling her, with My Mother crying, that that is not the case. I Am telling her she is killing her self, and when we are alone she is telling Me to "f-off" and refusing to speak to Me.

I Am 18 Years Old, and I Am crying.

Please tell Me what to do.

Eugene.

No she does not, I made her eat some prawns Today in front of My Mother because she feels ill and her immune system is completely crap, and now, for not the first time, she is saying "f-you", "f-this", no compassion what so ever, My Mother was crying Today, and yet still.

Eugene.

She has suffered from bullemia before, and yet she thinks that this diet thing of hers is perfectly healthy and normal.

she thinks this diet regime is healthy and normal because she isnt puging food this is not bulimia (imo) its progressed to anorexia or another ED which involves only ever eating healthily xoxo

Tammy, can we leave diagnoses to the professionals please. Amateur diagnoses (from secondary source too) and notoriously dangerous.

MB

sweetheart I myself am an ex-anorexic

I've seen the hurt which is associated with it I still blame myself for my mum and dads divorce over it - it splits people apart so dont tell me its a secondary source

I was at the point I had a tube down my throat which pumped nutrients into my body

- I dont think he wants the same for his girlfriend

as I had said it was only ever in my opinion xoxo

she thinks this diet regime is healthy and normal because she isnt puging food this is not bulimia (imo) its progressed to anorexia or another ED which involves only ever eating healthily xoxo

see musicbloke i did say in my opinion and no I never implyed you wanted his girlfriend to go the same road I did either xoxo

Sorry, I assumed that the "imo" was connected to your opening clause. If only you'd punctuate your posts correctly we wouldn't have these difficulties.

MB

she thinks this diet regime is healthy and normal because she isnt puging food this is not bulimia (imo) its progressed to anorexia or another ED which involves only ever eating healthily xoxo

I've had control issues with food, and studied ED's at school etc. Tammy is almost undoubtedly spot on. Everything in H&R is unprofessional, but from our own experiences we can sometimes make relatively accurate diagnoses.

Relatively accurate isn't always good enough mate. Not to say that comments haven't provided incentive for help though. As many have stated, the only route to go here is professional medical help, who can refer to specialist places, or counseling etc.