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i'm obsessed with somebody i know nothing about. what the hell do i do? watch

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    Just ask her to do a no strings attached activity... fun, fun, fun. I'm doing research, ******** it up.
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    Just go for it!!
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    i will go for it! im just looking for a way to get her out of my head until the chance comes.
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    I think you know what you ought to do, the only thing stopping you from talking to her is you, you're thinking about it too much and hence complicating the situation. If I were to see a 'hot' guy and found myself thinking about them often, I'd honestly put my shy nature aside and see about talking to him. I would urge you to do the same and adopt this 'just go for it' attitude. Trust me, when a girl is interested in a guy she will indicate it by looking at him a lot, the way I see she seems to be doing with you. She's probably just as nervous/shy about it and that is why she's always seen with her friend. If you keep her waiting too long, she will either think you're not interested or lose interest in you herself. I suggest you speak to her as soon as possible because it seems you've been holding back for a while. If, however, approaching her is too much a task, see about adding her on Facebook and messaging her there. Either way, please do something about these feelings if you want her or you will probably kick yourself for it later.
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    Pick your nose and flick the snot at her.
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    Same thing with me although I dont think about her as much as you seem to do.
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    Just talk to both of them. What's the big deal ?
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    Add her on facebook.



    Then message her a link to this page.
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    (Original post by aliluvschoc)
    Add her on facebook.



    Then message her a link to this page.
    this x2
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    ok i dont think she is the girlfriend type. she only hangs around with girls.

    plan B: get her out of my head and stop trying to get with her. how do i do this?
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    (Original post by anon50050)
    ok.

    i started college this september and for the first few months, a hot girl was checking me out every time she saw me. this hot girl is not in any of my classes, and always hangs around with her one friend. anyway, i think she lost interest because i wasn't reacting due to nervousness and lack of girl experience.

    a few weeks ago, they were outside college whilst i was inside, and they both just stared at me for like 10 seconds with no facial expression whatsoever. i have no idea what they were thinking about. this girl looks so cute and i really wanna get to know her, but it is SOOOO rare to find an opportunity where i can talk to her without looking weird (i.e. when her friend(s) aren't with her or if we're both walking in the same direction).

    i realised that she knows 2 people that i also know. these 2 people aren't really my friends, they're just in my class, and probably don't think anything of me as i hardly talk to them anyway.

    so im pretty much obsessed; i cant stop thinking about her for some strange reason. when i go college i only look forward to the breaks so i can see her for like 10 seconds and hope something would happen. i want this to stop because the thought is really distracting me when i want to revise or do anything else.

    nothing will probably happen, but i can't get her out of my head, even tho i want to! i know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but there's something different with this girl. now, when we walk past eachother she doesn't even look at my direction, whilst im hoping for her to see me smiling at her or something.

    there are 8 college weeks left before study leave. WHAT THE HELL DO I DO? seriously.. how do i get her out of my head?

    Get eye contact with her, get her to catch you staring at her then smile and say "hi" (no harm in saying hi, ever) then you've said something to her and if she didn't before, she knows you exist.

    Then you need to get involved in a conversation that she's in. If she';s talking to a mate of yours then think of something you need to talk to that mate about then go over and politely wait or automatically open their body langauge so you can step in the conversation. Works a treat

    From there, just keep working and see if anything happens. If it doesn't, then it's obviously not meant to be. If it does, awesome and well done.
    If you never do anything, you'll never ever know.
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    (Original post by Chibelta)
    Get eye contact with her, get her to catch you staring at her then smile and say "hi" (no harm in saying hi, ever)
    i wont look like a weirdo? i have never spoken to this girl before. this could give them something to ***** about lol
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    (Original post by anon50050)
    i wont look like a weirdo? i have never spoken to this girl before. this could give them something to ***** about lol
    No, if someone kinda random was staring at me I'd be like :confused: but if they smiled and said hi I'd be like :o:

    Well if they ***** then she isn't very nice try it.
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    I think you should try to make yourself known to her, I'm like this with the girl I like, constantly on my
    mind. Why give up on liking her, she may like you if you make yourself known, find out more about her.
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    Next time, smile and wave - that way she'll know you're not a loser who just stares at pretty people and maybe next time she sees you, she'll come and talk to you.
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    fart a bit
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    How about we try and convince you that she hates you? That might put you off her.
 
 
 
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