I was just on a friend's profile page, and noticed she had replied to comments from a male friend about something. The exclamation marks and xs caught my eye so I scrolled down to read the messages. If you were a guy at uni, and a girl on your course who you kinda spoke to sometimes messaged you on facebook with
"jake my babs - what are you up to 2morro. I'm so BORED- i just want to revise anatomy- save me u hunky knight love you xxx"
would you think she was flirting, or just being fun and friendly?
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Last edited by SweetsAndSugar; 10-02-2010 at 18:13.
- 10-02-2010 18:10
- 10-02-2010 18:20
Depends. Are they injokey people, is one of them not attracted to the other's sex, was she drunk?
Could be either. Ask, if it matters that much to you.
- 10-02-2010 18:24
hunky knight= Sex bomb
- 10-02-2010 18:36
Depends what she is like usually. There are some naturally flirty people that don't mean anything by it, so she may be one of them?
- 10-02-2010 18:43
The line isn't very clear at the best of times online tbh. The amount of times I have flirted like that as a joke outweighs those in anger, so to speak, by magnitudes. When I have meant it, it will usually be a lot more subtle. In person, the difference is usually extremely obvious.