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    i don't know what it is but whenever me and my boyfriend are doing anything i never get turned on. it's really frustrating for me, i don't know what to do about it. it may be that i'm not attracted to him but i really don't want to break up with him over this because i really like him. he's fingered me a couple of times, that was okay, but like just making out and touching doesn't do anything. is there a pill i can take that makes me horny or something? because i want to be, but i'm just not.
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    i don't know what it is but whenever me and my boyfriend are doing anything i never get turned on. it's really frustrating for me, i don't know what to do about it. it may be that i'm not attracted to him but i really don't want to break up with him over this because i really like him. he's fingered me a couple of times, that was okay, but like just making out and touching doesn't do anything. is there a pill i can take that makes me horny or something? because i want to be, but i'm just not.
    There's no magic potion that's going to make you attracted to your boyfriend I'm afraid. Aside from your boyfriend being nice, what else do you like about it? Are there any particular features of his body you like? You need to have a think about whether there's anything about him you like (if so that could help you feel more turned on if you concentrate on the areas you do like).

    If you can't think of anything, I think you shouldn't be with him, your boyfriend might be nice, but if you're not attracted to him, then staying with him is almost like lying to him. He needs to find someone who does find him a turn-on, and you need to find someone that makes you horny.
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    are you on the pill? Microgynon killed my girlfriend's sex drive completely...
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    You really like him and don't want to break up with him. If you imagined yourselves as just friends and found you'd still want to kiss and cuddle and sex him, then you just have a low sex drive.
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    get drunk, you'll be mega horny then
 
 
 
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