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It's probably about being with the right person at the right time. It's not as if going out with someone should make you feel obliged to do certain acts, especially at your age.

You seem all to be more bothered with the act itself instead of thinking about who it's with. If you're not comfortable doing something with a certain guy then don't. Some girls seem to think that they have do certain acts with their boyfriend to prove they have a mature and serious relationship. Just do what you're comfortable with and wait till the right guy comes along.

I mean, guys have little respect for a girl who thinks "I have a boyfriend. That means I must go down on him."
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The few time's I've given oral it's been hard cos the girls have been 'natural' and the hair traps the smell, makin it stink. It hasn't tasted particularly nice at any time but it has been bearable.
Stubble is worse. lol. No really im serious, if a girl is going to shave down there they've gotta keep ontop of it
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I LOVE recieving, never given probably wont ever :p:
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I LOVE recieving, never given probably wont ever :p:
Thats not very fair :rolleyes:
Giving can be as much fun as recieving you know
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Thats not very fair :rolleyes:
Giving can be as much fun as recieving you know
Yeah but when you don't really care about the girl, why bother?

There are enough not-so-clever girls who are prepared to give without receiving.
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Yeah but when you don't really care about the girl, why bother?

There are enough not-so-clever girls who are prepared to give without receiving.
Well if you like that kind of thing.
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Thats not very fair :rolleyes:
Giving can be as much fun as recieving you know
Yeah sure :rolleyes:

Anyway can ANYONE tell me what SACT stand for so I can watch it too :confused:
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Yeah but when you don't really care about the girl, why bother?

There are enough not-so-clever girls who are prepared to give without receiving.
Exactly
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Giving can be as much fun as recieving you know
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Yeah sure :rolleyes:

Anyway can ANYONE tell me what SACT stand for so I can watch it too :confused:
You would not liek it, it got morals to it
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Well if you like that kind of thing.
I didn't say I liked behaving that way. I just understand why a guy would.


and someone mentioned SATC = Sex and the City and I'd like to say that those girls are AMERICANS. They don't think like us. In no way, should you consider their behaviour as a reference. A lot of American girls are brought up being told a blowjob is nothing. It's all about their religiously extremist past: anything that isn't full-on sex was ok before marriage so such acts were considered fine.
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(Original post by SamTheMan)
I didn't say I liked behaving that way. I just understand why a guy would.


and someone mentioned SATC = Sex and the City and I'd like to say that those girls are AMERICANS. They don't think like us. In no way, should you consider their behaviour as a reference. A lot of American girls are brought up being told a blowjob is nothing. It's all about their religiously extremist past: anything that isn't full-on sex was ok before marriage so such acts were considered fine.
Will I don't know if they liek us or not, but I can sure tell you that there is one thing they don't liek and that is sweeping generalisations.
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mhmm. your point?
What you get up to is your business, just others might not want to keep hearing your sex life every other post they read of yours. Where's you next place to perform it? At the train station? Or has that already been done? :rolleyes:

Actually, that brings back memories.... :eek:
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There are enough not-so-clever girls who are prepared to give without receiving.
Thanks. I just don't want anyone licking my privates, really. I know i wouldn't want to do it. The idea of giving repluses the thread starter here, and the idea of receiving repulses me! Bleh!
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Thanks. I just don't want anyone licking my privates, really. I know i wouldn't want to do it. The idea of giving repluses the thread starter here, and the idea of receiving repulses me! Bleh!
Each to their own.
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Each to their own.
Indeed! SamTheMan thinks I'm 'not-so-clever' though
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Thanks. I just don't want anyone licking my privates, really. I know i wouldn't want to do it. The idea of giving repluses the thread starter here, and the idea of receiving repulses me! Bleh!
Not all privates agree with their superiors at all times
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Not all privates agree with their superiors at all times
ummm...
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Will I don't know if they liek us or not, but I can sure tell you that there is one thing they don't liek and that is sweeping generalisations.
I wrote that post rather quickly. I was pointing out to the general characteristics a foreigner notices among the American female population, not some universal truth.
Just like a foreigner might come to the UK and think people drink a lot of tea. It doesn't mean that everyone does.
It's called the national character. It's very different from a sweeping generalisation.
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It's not a requirement of a relationship to have oral sex. It's just one part of intimacy and foreplay, so don't feel required to do it, and certainly don't feel like "everyones doing it, I must be the only person not to".

Never do something you aren't comfortable with. Chat with your partner about it when you get to that stage in a relationship.

People talk openly about it because it, for them, isn't a big deal anymore, but you need to be able to communicate about it so you can begin to feel more comfortable with it..and being comfy with it doesn't mean actually having to do it.

It can be quite an embarrasing thing as it really is very intimate by the nature of the act, and this makes both boys and girls feel unsure of themselves. That's totally understandable, and many girls would prefer to give than recieve as they are unsure about their bodies (and men usually make us more unsure, because they are bloody useless).
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