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    Ok so im 17 and im off to uni after the summer and ive never really had a boyfriend. Im not amazingly gorgeous but im quite pretty although i do look young for my age, i have guy mates and i have been asked out a few times but not by anyone that ive really liked. HONESTLY would this bother you guys? Guys tend to assume when they find out that i have never had a boyfriend that im no fun? Thanks
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    I really don't think that not having had a boyfriend before you go to University is that big a deal. You don't have to tell any potentials that they're your first...you don't have to lie about it either if asked. If the person doesn't want to be with you because you've never been with someone else then do you really want to get with them in the first place?

    Enjoy your time at University!
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    (Original post by JustJam2006)
    I really don't think that not having had a boyfriend before you go to University is that big a deal. You don't have to tell any potentials that they're your first...you don't have to lie about it either if asked. If the person doesn't want to be with you because you've never been with someone else then do you really want to get with them in the first place?

    Enjoy your time at University!
    Exactly what I was going to say. Word by word actually, get out of my head :lolwut: hehe.

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    I'm kinda in the same situation, but I'm a guy and haven't had any "serious" girlfriends.

    To be absolutely honest, I would see it as a good thing because I'd at least know that there could be some empathy there.

    But I can also understand why some guys who have been with about 39 girls before might find it a little off-putting; probably not because it's a bad thing, just more wondering why it's the case.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i have been asked out a few times but not by anyone that ive really liked.
    Your ust looking for Mr Right to come knocking at your door and he probably won't, You sound fussy.
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    Wouldnt bother me at all, and I dont think it would bother most reasonable people. I've known many people who have gone to Uni, in the same situation as you and have had sucessful relationships.
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    Wouldn't bother me at all, I have fun at uni and just wait for the right guy to come to you...
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    Personally I'd be more attracted if I was looking for something long term i.e. a frienship or a relationship. If on the other hand I was out clubbing and was talking to a girl and she told me without warning that she'd never had a bf, then I'd be a little put off, but would probably try to keep talking and not write off instantly. (that sounds harsh reading back but im only being honest). If however, I asked, then I wouldn't mind in the slightest, in fact, I've not had a massive amount of experience myself, and i find slutty girls who are willing to shag anyone a huge turn off, so in that way it's good.
    I'm at university in my first year and probably 70-80% of the guys I know would be slightly unsettled just by finding out that. but there's stil a good 20-30% who, like me, wouldnt mind at all, unless you start saying it randomly out of the blue, as if you have to.
    Hope that helps.
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    (Original post by Starless Eyes)
    Exactly what I was going to say. Word by word actually, get out of my head :lolwut: hehe.

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    Indeed they do!
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    Pm me your number :sexface:
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    no-one cares esp. for girls
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok so im 17 and im off to uni after the summer and ive never really had a boyfriend. Im not amazingly gorgeous but im quite pretty although i do look young for my age, i have guy mates and i have been asked out a few times but not by anyone that ive really liked. HONESTLY would this bother you guys? Guys tend to assume when they find out that i have never had a boyfriend that im no fun? Thanks
    I think a lot of guys would feel very honored and privileged to be your first.
    Speaking as a 21 year old virgin who's never dated or kissed a girl, I think it would be pretty interesting to share all my first times with a girl who's also doing all of this stuff for the first time.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I think a lot of guys would feel very honored and privileged to be your first.
    Speaking as a 21 year old virgin who's never dated or kissed a girl, I think it would be pretty interesting to share all my first times with a girl who's also doing all of this stuff for the first time.

    i seen on the news somone sold their virginity for over a million dollars
 
 
 
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