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having the official face to face break up talk with my bf today watch

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    any advice. I still love him but i kinda broke up with him over the phone because things werent working. Not seen him for a week and a half and having the talk today, he suggested a neutral place when we normally go to each others houses so i know he just wants to make it official. im really nervous and its hard because i do still love him, dont know how to act, dont even know whether to kiss him on the lips?! advice
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    kiss on the cheek will do :yy: and whatever happens, dont fall for any soppyness..if you know the relationship isnt going to work
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    Give him a friendly hug.
    Then tell him you still love him but that you don't think it's working. Explain why it's not working (don't say anything that might hurt him unless he can change it), see if you can compromise to work out the problems. If not then say that you don't think you should be together anymore. I know it's hard but it will get better.
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    Depends what kind of break up it's going to be. Is it mutual? If so, a kiss on the cheek or a hug are fine. If he's still clinging on to the hope you might change your mind, make sure you keep your distance and make it clear that you're breaking up with him.
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    Don't tell him you still love him if you definitely want to finish it, as this might give him false hope. You have to be cruel to be kind!
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    If you are breaking up with him, why would you kiss him at all? To be honest, I think a hug would probably suffice.
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    (Original post by emma t)
    any advice. I still love him but i kinda broke up with him over the phone because things werent working. Not seen him for a week and a half and having the talk today, he suggested a neutral place when we normally go to each others houses so i know he just wants to make it official. im really nervous and its hard because i do still love him, dont know how to act, dont even know whether to kiss him on the lips?! advice

    explain to him why you are breaking up with him, most girls are guilty of breaking up with no explanation or reason of breaking up.
 
 
 
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