basically recently i've been getting ripped into by a bunch of guys in my year, the ones who are leaders of the pack really, for not getting with enough people. first of all they started talking about how i was 'stuck up' to which i asked them what they meant by that, and they went really cowardly when i asked them what they meant and said it was just 'banter', but when one of my close guy friends asked, they said 'she never lets anyone have a go on her'. then today, they started using the term.. 'south pole'... i got told this afternoon that i was the south pole, and it basically meant because i'm 'frigid' and it's hard to get there. they were talking in front of me saying 'yeah i was planning a trip to the south pole but that failed!' and 'damn it's hard to get there isn't it?' and basically just being *****. i didn't realize at the time they were on about me, but now i've found out. why the hell do that though? either a girl is a slag, and they get ripped into for that, or they get called stuck up. the truth is that they are all ugly little ******* and i wouldn't let any of them 'have a go' because they are *****. but what do i say back to them, and what do i do? i'm pretty offended and pissed off. they are all making such a massive deal out of it. and also why me?? i have a bunch of close friends who aren't slags at all but no one even mentions it. so why do i get abuse for it?? btw we are all sixteen, recently all the boys have been absolute knobs, please PLEASE tell me they grow out of it. and when!!