Anonymous as they'll probably browse this site..
So basically I've been mates with this guy for around 4 years now and the other day I receive this random text saying that they've always felt strong feelings for me and that they want to do something with me on valentines day.
I thought this was slightly odd as;
1.) It's been so long
2.) He's never shown any form of interest in me - he doesn't even flirt etc.
3.) If he's known me for so long yet still confesses his love via text?
I have no feelings at all for this person apart from the fact we're good mates and I explained this to them. I feel rather guilty now, as if I've spent all these years leading him on or something?
I received/replied to the text last night and haven't heard anything yet.
(I'm feeling btw)
Friend confessed love.. Watch
- Thread Starter
- 12-02-2010 18:33
- Thread Starter
- 12-02-2010 18:34
- 12-02-2010 18:38
Left it too long because he also likes you as a friend and didnt wanna ruin that but hes only jus built courage/confidence to now. Plus by a text, well obv cos he darent say to your face. But im sure hell get over it. Tell him more apples on tree to pick from and lets stay good friends
- 12-02-2010 18:44
yeh tell him you dont like him..and in fact set him up with somemone elseLast edited by emanuel_arsenalfc; 12-02-2010 at 18:57.
- 12-02-2010 18:46
If I were you I'd ignore the text. If he did it by text it probably meansone of two things; either his mates are playing a prank (do you definitely know it was him who sent the text?), or he's too shy to bring up the subject in person. So if you ignore it, chances are he'll never mention it and hopefully things will sort themselves out. If he does mention it next time you see him, just be open and honest if you don't share the feelings. It is a bit of a long time to spring that on someone.
(Original post by emanuel_arsenalfc)
- 12-02-2010 18:52
yeh tell him you dont like him..and in face set him up with somemone else
That was for OP btw... and every other female