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Whenever I get close to a guy.... then bam I get scared and back off :( watch

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    a couple of times i've liked a guy who i've got to know/or been friends with, and then as soon as I feel there is a spark and we like each other, I get freaked out and dont feel like I want to go out with him anymore.
    I think its because i'm scared of having a relationship or something, i'm 17 and ive never had a bf, so I think this is it?
    Ive told myself maybe i'm not ready, but if i'm not ready now, when am I ever going to be??
    Does anyone else feel like this? i can quite happily fancy a boy without getting to know him, but then nothing ever comes of it and I feel sad. But when I like a boy who may like me too (and we talk loads) then I back off. Aggh I hate it, help please!
    I am exactly the same my frends had to throw me in a relationshp...

    Apart from getting scared and backing off does anyone else have this thing where they can not believe that the person might actually like them in return and therefore start to constantly doubt everything and construe it as just being friendly?

    Take slow steps one at the time..

    And remember action is the most important ..

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