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    Well my girlfriend and I had a bit of a falling out and she texted me saying she needed a couple of days to just cool down a bit and, you know, think and stuff. So fair enough and I've let her and not contacted her AT ALL but it's been 5 days now and I'm a bit worried.

    Ok, it's not been that long but she said a couple and it's been 5 days. I'm not sure if she expects me to begin talking to her again or if she'll make the initial contact. Usually she's quite shy and let's me take the initiative on things like this which I would but I don't really want to because I might pressure/force her into starting to talk to me when she hasn't had her time away from me and she'd probably talk back to me because she doesn't want to be mean but maybe it'll cause problems later if she hasn't fully gotten over what happened.

    So, in summary, should I wait for her to make the initial contact or should I just do so? She usually expects me to do so (and I usually do) which is only reason I ask. Not sure if she's waiting for me etc.
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