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    When I see a girl in a club I know (let's say I really fancy her) but I don't know her that well and don't really get much of a chance to get to know her, I want to say hi but **** myself at what to say. I'll be like 'you having a good night?' and then after the polite exchange I'll just freeze! Especially if it's someone I fancy I don't want to appear standoffish and uninterested. Likewise I freeze if I see them sober and don't know what to say to them other than how was your night? Can anyone help me with this? Thanks.
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    Get some Cojones , Have a few things of Courvoisier but your still sober then ask you feel more confident.
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    What's your name, can I get you a drink, lets take a seat, (if at uni) what course are you doing otherwise what do you do for a living........lets go back to mine :sexface: seriously just chat about anything, I start chatting about the weather and from there I find something more interesting to say.
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    I've always prefered ' how are you?' rather than 'hows your night?' as an ice breaker... but that's just me

    How do you know her?
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    (Original post by chronic_fatigue)
    What's your name, can I get you a drink, lets take a seat, (if at uni) what course are you doing otherwise what do you do for a living........lets go back to mine :sexface: seriously just chat about anything, I start chatting about the weather and from there I find something more interesting to say.
    lol That comment just say that alone , Drop her a few sweet lines then "Lets go back to mine (Pull a sex face)" and you'll be on a winner.
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    through drunk nights out and going out with our mutual friends. We've never had a proper chat before. So I don't feel as if I truly know her.
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    (Original post by Rorrry)
    through drunk nights out and going out with our mutual friends. We've never had a proper chat before. So I don't feel as if I truly know her.


    So then get to know her! Start off with the basics, for example what is she studying...

    I know it doesn't sound great in theory but it works! It's an easy way to start a conversation :yes:
 
 
 
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