Its just he doesn't strike me as the type to ask me first. I'd expect him to come out with it first. I'm the shy one! Do any of you loud guys have the same problem.

Reply 7

musicbloke

17

Amlea, you keep asking questions about this bloke and each time you get the same response. Yes, he fancies you. Go out with him and stop posting the same old threasd over and over.

MB

Reply 8

Mark S

17

You should try reading 'men are from mars and women are from venus'

Tells you a lot, well, everything you need to know about guy psychology.

Reply 9

JonnyB

2

musicbloke

Amlea, you keep asking questions about this bloke and each time you get the same response. Yes, he fancies you. Go out with him and stop posting the same old threasd over and over.

MB

Haha! I didn't this thread was one of "many". :rolleyes:

Reply 10

Amlea

OP

1

hes asked me if i want a "relationship", what the hell does that mean?

Reply 11

silence

16

"guy psychology" is an oxymoron

Reply 12

Glory

1

he wants to date you, he wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend.. its rather straightforward to me.

Reply 13

SamTheMan

17

OneEightSeven

He fancies you, but wants you to say you fancy him first.

Wow that's a very pertinent comment but I think that applies to girls too. Sometimes we flirt/seduce just because we want to know that someone fancies us. Whether we'll do something about it is another matter.

Reply 14

Adarah

16

Amlea

is it really that strightforward?

I would think so, he's a guy, they generally talk about things plainly. So don't worry, if you fancy him text him back that you do like him too :wink:

Reply 15

bikerx23

1

Amlea

hes asked me if i want a "relationship", what the hell does that mean?

well...either he wants to know if he can just get his leg over every now and again, or he really likes you and is worried that you just want to get your leg over, and he wants you to be serious.etc. and therefore he doesn't want to get hurt.

Reply 16

Amlea

OP

1

I've told him i like him but hes asked me whether i want a "relationship"...no guys ever asked me that. Its just i dunno the word "relationship" has always made me nervous. When guys ask this what the hell r they trying to say?

(i know i sound really stupid...)

look up

When we get old, guys use better language, because relationships are less games and more the chance of finding the one to settle down with. hes become a man and not a childish boy anymore, hes asking the proper way the kind of way id expect to be asked to date him.

Reply 19

bikerx23

1

Glory

When we get old, guys use better language, because relationships are less games and more the chance of finding the one to settle down with. hes become a man and not a childish boy anymore, hes asking the proper way the kind of way id expect to be asked to date him.

Thats true...but if you consider that amlea is 17, i would assume the guy is of a similar age, so it is unlikely he would be looking to settle down just yet...

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