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    Yeah, I realise you guys can't solve my problems. I'm just posting here to release my frustration get out some sadness w/e.

    In my first term at Uni I got on really well with this girl. I thought we had a fairly deep connection, she was giving me loads of signals (e.g. staring deep into my eyes etc)... stuff almost happened but not quite just before term ended, but I was fine because I thought I'd just wait till next term...

    Next term came and I failed my midyear tests (too much fooling around in the first term). So I reasoned I'd work really hard and focus on my studies for a good few weeks. Still spoke to said girl but didn't connect with her like before. Rumours start flying that she was starting a relationship with some other guy (a guy who even then I knew probably fancied her), but I didn't really believe that she fancied him (e.g. some comments she made about him). But then tonight, literally minutes before Valentines, I arrive late and this guy is holding her in his arms in the club. Not kissing, but still I think I get the idea...

    Makes me feel like ****...

    Thinking back, I probably should have taken command like that guy did...but I'm **** with girls...and I thought there was no rush...

    What do you guys make of the situation anyway? I'm still trying to work out how upset I am...

    Hmm, it's a dog eat dog world. Learn from this mistake for next time, maybe she thought you weren't that interested seeing you didn't actually do anything in a WHOLE semester!
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