Broke up a month ago, dated a year and a half, he absolutely hates me and is supposedly 'still angry'. Break up was quite bad.
His friend is having a party tonight, mostly his group of friends but we get along a little too, if I went I'd bring my best friend, do I go? :/
Party with Ex? watch
- 14-02-2010 09:08
- 14-02-2010 09:24
no obviously not.
if he hates you and is still angry. why the hell would you go to his friends party its just going to make it worse.
obviously i don't know your situation but i assume you did something he disagreed with. if you want to make it better, write a letter saying sorry and try and explain why you did it. wait until he forgives you before you get back into his life. until then just stay awayLast edited by didgeridoo12uk; 14-02-2010 at 09:28.
- 14-02-2010 09:26
No. Don't ruin his night out.Last edited by h5656bh52ptecsw; 14-02-2010 at 10:00.
- 14-02-2010 09:27
Set the place on fire
- 14-02-2010 09:36
I didn't do something he disagreed with, we both hurt eachother so he eventually ended it. And if I went, theres no way I'd go anywhere near him or attempt to talk to him anyway, so it's not about that.
- 14-02-2010 10:32
As others have said; Its his friend's party, his friend group.
You know he's still struggling to accept the situation and so all you're going to do is make things worse for him by turning up. If you had any respect for the guy you'd leave him alone.
Plus the fact you want to bring your best mate along kind of shows you dont think you'll particularly get along with the people at the party anyway.
- 14-02-2010 11:43
They're mutual friends, the guy who's throwing the party used to be a really good friend of both of ours, just the way its been left is that he's the victim and i'm the villian.
I don't have any interest in talking to him or making this party hard for him at all.. I just want to go and have fun myself?!
- 14-02-2010 11:45
if youve been invited, then go.