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    Physical strength is the cornerstone of masculinity.
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    (Original post by Liquidus Zeromus)
    My female equivalent :teehee:

    Out of curiousity, is it the same for your boyfriend, does he like fat girls?
    :rofl:

    Had to ask?
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    AHHHH 6PACCKKKKSSS MMMM AHHH MUSCLY ARMSSS AHHHH soz but u might have noticed its muscles all the way for me :drool:
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    (Original post by Sakujo)
    :rofl:

    Had to ask?
    :yep:
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    Hows this?

    Mid diet last summer.

    http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/6606/img00294a.jpg
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    (Original post by Liquidus Zeromus)
    My female equivalent

    Out of curiousity, is it the same for your boyfriend, does he like fat girls?
    Well, I'm fat myself, and he doesn't seem too disappointed. :p: (there's your answer)

    From what I can gather, he doesn't like VERY thin girls, but any other size is fine. :p:

    I'm dieting now as I work with children and want to be slimmer for them - so that they feel they CAN ask me to take part in activities (even if I'm not keen on being active myself), and he's asked me to watch myself and make sure I don't get much thinner, but (though I wouldn't anyway, I like being a larger woman myself), I know he likes traditionally slimmer, typically attractive women too - Cheryl Cole and Frankie from The Saturday's being two. He's got quite varied tastes, I'd say.
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    (Original post by cowsgoquack)
    ha ha you're overweight
    If your definition of overweight is 50kg, then sure, I'm definitely overweight.
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    (Original post by cpj1987)
    Well, I'm fat myself, and he doesn't seem too disappointed. :p: (there's your answer)

    From what I can gather, he doesn't like VERY thin girls, but any other size is fine. :p:

    I'm dieting now as I work with children and want to be slimmer for them - so that they feel they CAN ask me to take part in activities (even if I'm not keen on being active myself), and he's asked me to watch myself and make sure I don't get much thinner, but (though I wouldn't anyway, I like being a larger woman myself), I know he likes traditionally slimmer, typically attractive women too - Cheryl Cole and Frankie from The Saturday's being two. He's got quite varied tastes, I'd say.
    That's great to hear. The sort of attitude I like

    I'm sure kids would ask you to take part in activities anyway, if you but demonstrated that you were active :yes:
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    This is a cross post from annother forum, I didn't write this. I think this ties in with my own experiance going from 5'9 130 pounds about four years ago to 155 pounds now.

    I have gained over 50+ pounds of muscle mass. There is a saying that when skinny guys get big, when they look in the mirror, they still see the skinny guy. This is true, as my ‘skinny mind’ hasn’t yet caught up with my body.

    Let me tell you of the change of reactions I got from the women:

    For your reading pleasure,

    Fat Girl = Means a big girl that requires an elephant gun.

    Ugly Girl = In the same category as Fat Girl. These girls may not be fat, but it hurts to look at them.

    Average Girl = They don’t hurt your eyes, but they aren’t amazing enough to attract your eyes. Average girls are the plain Janes.

    Cute Girls = Often, they are innocent average girls whose innocence makes them cute. They are a bit picky about who they end up with as they are inexperienced.

    Very Attractive = Great curves, long luscious hair, nice everything. These women know they are very attractive and sometimes narcissistically wear outfits to reflect it.

    Very Beautiful = Bombshell. Every guy will notice this girl and stare and gawk. You know one of these women are around by seeing the satellites of boys trying to be ‘friends’ with them. Guys fear these magnificent creatures.

    155

    I started out around 155 pounds at 6’3 height. This meant that I was very skinny. I was also considered a nice looking guy. Women loved me being tall.

    At this point, I had to deal with a lot of fat chicks hitting on me. These girls were BIG and I wanted nothing to do with them. Ugly girls also would come to me. This was me not doing anything. This was what my body was attracting all alone. If I wanted to get a cuter girl, I had to work for it.

    I have problems talking to women, not because I am scared or boring, but because I sense the women think I am ‘below’ them. And the truth is that they do.

    I date average women.

    165

    Already, things have changed. The fat/ugly women still go for me but they don’t think I’m as easy. They want to enter oneitis with me. The ‘unworthy’ girls category would now all be staring at me. To the beautiful women, I’m just a typical guy. Cute girls now enjoy talking to me.

    I still date average women and now some cute women

    175

    “You are looking very good,” my older female manager told me. The fat/ugly women no longer hit on me (thank goodness!) and people (out of the blue) are asking why I don’t have a girlfriend. Average girls are beginning to stare.

    I date only cute women with some very attractive ones mixed in.

    185

    Average girls are now hitting on me. Very attractive women are checking me out. At this stage, every woman is happy to talk to me. They all secretly wonder if I’m gay.

    I date more very attractive women but still have the cute ones.

    195

    OK, when you don’t have a girlfriend at this stage, the ladies will whisper, “Is he gay?” all the time. One girl got bold about it and asked me point blankly, “Pook, you are cute and all. So why don’t you have a girlfriend?” I was stunned by her bluntness (rare among women).

    Average women consider me out of their league. Cute ones try to become my ‘friend’.
    I date only very attractive women. Beautiful women are still a bit of an anomalie.

    205

    When you get to this stage, something very strange happens. All the attention and staring women gave you is gone (mostly). Ugly/Fat women will despise you as will the average women. Most girls will be scared of you (cute girls, very attractive girls)

    Let me give you some examples. One Very Beautiful girl was in several of my classes. I start talking to her and she has plenty of time to leave. But she doesn’t… she stays to keep talking to me. The girls now notice me, but are a bit scared to talk and act around me.

    One cute girl is like a leech to me in one of my classes. She must sit right next to me, must ‘borrow my notes’, must talk to me 20 minutes after class everyday…

    One Very Beautiful woman was a fitness instructor at my gym (think ‘well muscled’ with nice strong legs (those strong thighs come in handy with her dealings with the Pook-man!)). Every time I saw this girl, she always had a ‘satellite’ boy around her. Who does she end up with? Me.

    Or the ultimate example: there was a girl I was in oneitis that drove me to this webpage. As I got bigger, her reactions to me changed as well. At 155, I was ‘average’. At 175, she knew something was up. I got her at 195.

    Now I date some Very Attractive women but most are Very Beautiful Women.

    I know many of you guys are saying the same thing, “I get beautiful women too and I am skinny!” But the thing is, all these examples here is based on attraction on the body alone. I am NOT working to get these women. My body is doing 99% of the attracting. I can just be a statue and get a response. (But of course, you have to take action. This is based on doing zilch.)

    Rather than work hard to get one woman, why not work hard on yourself and get all the women? I don’t work hard to get women, I work hard on my dreams which gets the women automatically.

    Like the article says on top, only the extremely beautiful women will risk being with a hunk like you. If you want a girl with a great body, you ought to work on your own body.

    Coming from a skinny guy, being big is a totally different world. The worst thing is finding out how people really viewed the old you. People now openly insult my past skinny self and it hurts. It hurts because I never knew they had thought that way of me. Clothes no longer hang on my body properly, but I look terrific naked (I am saying this for the mental imagery of our lovely lady readers).

    Big guys are allowed to get away with more things. I allowed to be cruder, to be bolder, to take advantage of women more (I’m serious!), and so on. You can also be stupid as well. My biggest problem is women only wanting me for sex (no, this is not a joke. Yes, it is a problem). You try to find a girl that fits your life and all she is interested in is your body! It is like getting rich and putting up with gold diggers.

    However, the risk with body building is that it can turn into a highly narcissist womb. I often think the mirrors in the gyms are not so much to perfect the form, but to perfect the ego. The risk is that you will try to become perfect and we all know that perfect is boring.

    Now for a note to the skinny guys who are successful with women. They will, no doubt, post replies to challenge the relevancy of this post. Know that the central… thrust… of the post is not a bettering of image. It is an increase of testosterone. If you are naturally skinny, and are at a higher muscle mass, your body will continually be at a high state of testosterone building and rebuilding muscle mass just to stay the same. High rates of testosterone affects not only your actions, I believe women can sniff it out. So take a guy, stuffed with testosterone, and push him into a room full of lovely young ladies. He doesn’t speak a word. He won’t have to. The women will go to him automatically.
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    (Original post by Liquidus Zeromus)
    That's great to hear. The sort of attitude I like

    I'm sure kids would ask you to take part in activities anyway, if you but demonstrated that you were active
    :yes:
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    Narrr I like muscleeey, as long as it isn't toooo muscly. And I don't like skinny!
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    (Original post by Tull)
    Does anyone else find guys who are pretty muscley and fit, just not, attractive? Something about it just doesn't seem, I dunno, natural or something. It's almost like, they look too bulky for their body, or something, it's odd.
    Like, I'd much prefer a weedy stick-thin guy, to someone that's like, ripped anyday, I guess it just doesn't do it for me.
    Surely I'm not the only one...?

    by "muscley" do you mean something like this:



    because I'd agree to, thats prety horrid, but what about like "athletic builds" ?:s

    surely girls like SOME muscle... surely there's still some sense of masculinity in your taste..
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    Speaking from a guys P.O.V. who goes to the gym; muscles on a SHORT guy is ******* unattractive, their muscles don't look in proportion to their height and it makes me lol. As long as they're fairly tallish, they won't look stupid when their shoulders bulk out.
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    (Original post by cpj1987)
    Well, I'm fat myself, and he doesn't seem too disappointed. :p: (there's your answer)

    From what I can gather, he doesn't like VERY thin girls, but any other size is fine. :p:

    I'm dieting now as I work with children and want to be slimmer for them - so that they feel they CAN ask me to take part in activities (even if I'm not keen on being active myself), and he's asked me to watch myself and make sure I don't get much thinner, but (though I wouldn't anyway, I like being a larger woman myself), I know he likes traditionally slimmer, typically attractive women too - Cheryl Cole and Frankie from The Saturday's being two. He's got quite varied tastes, I'd say.
    Dieting doesn't make you physically fitter. Go jogging and train for a long distance race or a half marathon taking place a year from now etc...Or just go jogging for the weight loss.

    Eat the same amount if you want but jog twice daily...I know someone who eats loads (not exaggerating) but wakes up early to jog and goes jogging in the evening. 1hr after breakfast and 1hr after dinner

    (I see them throughout the day so I'm 100%, yes, 100% sure nothing funny is going on)

    It's the simplest way and only takes up 2/2.5 hours of your day
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    (Original post by Seven_Three)
    This is a cross post from annother forum, I didn't write this. I think this ties in with my own experiance going from 5'9 130 pounds about four years ago to 155 pounds now.
    well, to the person who wrote that, the only words i have for them... "Shut up."
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    (Original post by TwentyTen)
    Dieting doesn't make you physically fitter. Go jogging and train for a long distance race or a half marathon taking place a year from now etc...Or just go jogging for the weight loss.

    Eat the same amount if you want but jog twice daily...I know someone who eats loads (not exaggerating) but wakes up early to jog and goes jogging in the evening.

    (I see them throughout the day so I'm 100%, yes, 100% sure nothing funny is going on)

    It's the simplest way and only takes up 2/2.5 hours of your day
    No, thank you. :p:
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    (Original post by examhunter)
    This thread is hilarious. I rekon all the girls saying they do not like muscle are probably fattys who have never got laid and never actually get the attention of muscular men.
    Right to some extent. A lot of the girls who say they don't like muscles say that the muscles are "hard" or look "hard", but they've obviously never been close enough to realize they're only "hard" when they are being tensed. Silliness.
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    (Original post by cpj1987)
    No, thank you. :p:
    Suit Yourself :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Adonis)
    thread is making me sad
    DO not take TSR girls seriously, most of them prolly aint your type anyway
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    (Original post by Gap)
    Speaking from a guys P.O.V. who goes to the gym; muscles on a SHORT guy is ******* unattractive, their muscles don't look in proportion to their height and it makes me lol. As long as they're fairly tallish, they won't look stupid when their shoulders bulk out.
    What sort of height are you talking about here?
 
 
 
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