Well I'm just having second thoughts about not trying to get back with my ex. We sort of got back together a few weeks back but realised maybe it wasn't for the best so decided to just try remain friends. I think if I showed interest in her again we'd probably get back together but I've decided not to just because I know we both really like each other but that's about it - as a couple we just didn't work out and ONLY our feelings for each other kept us together.
I did feel like I always cared much more about continuing the relationship than she did and so I was never sure if she did care THAT much about me. I know she does though because of things that have happened but then she'll go ahead and just not show it and just puts me back into confusion again. I know I could have been more relaxed/laid-back and if I was it may have worked out but that just isn't me and I don't feel like I even was that "clingy". She'd just make up excuses to say she was always busy and I never felt like she would compromise whereas I would. She might see a friend multiple times in a week and then decide to see them again instead of me who she maybe hadn't seen in a week or two.
To be honest, I felt like I deserved much better than what she was giving me but then we'd hang out for a bit and things would just seem better because it would always be really nice to just be close to her and be with her. But then when we weren't it was just a continuous cycle of her just not caring at all and me trying to set up a date or whatever.
Valentine's Day depression I guess. Just want to know I've made the right decision and that I do deserve better. Of course you guys don't know me but in just a really general way I mean.
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I'm doing the right thing... right? watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-02-2010 15:46
- 14-02-2010 15:51
Yes, right decision. No good perpetuating a vicious circle of unhappiness.
- Thread Starter
- 14-02-2010 16:29
Thanks, I really hope so...
- 14-02-2010 16:35
hmm I know people in a similar situation, like Sidi said no point perpetuating is there?