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Playing hard to get, not interested or just very busy watch

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    Anon as ex bf uses this

    So met a guy from a uni in another city, we kissed and swapped details and we are just exchanging emails via FB. Anyway I am going to drop by to see him for the day in the near future as he asked me too

    My problem is when I email him he usually takes at least two days minimum to get back to me even though I know he has been on FB. However he seems to enjoy talking to me

    Maybe I am a bit of a blabbermouth I dunno but I just kinda feel like maybe I should stop writing back as he feels he has to respond

    Our emails have just been friendly with just a hint of flirting nothing heavy at all. Just funny really and most do not even require a response

    Hell I dont even know what I am asking. Just wodnering if I am more of an inconvenience
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    If you were that much of an inconvenience he wouldn't bother emailing back at all - I know I don't if it's a hassle! Maybe he's the type that leaves facebook on while he does other things, or just simply likes to leave it a bit so it doesn't look like he's hanging onto your every word.

    If he didn't like you, I doubt he would bother at all.
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    (Original post by vegastwotimes)
    If you were that much of an inconvenience he wouldn't bother emailing back at all - I know I don't if it's a hassle! Maybe he's the type that leaves facebook on while he does other things, or just simply likes to leave it a bit so it doesn't look like he's hanging onto your every word.

    If he didn't like you, I doubt he would bother at all.
    Hmmm I guess he would also have rejected my FB request since I wasnt 100% sure it was him I was adding

    Ok will stop being so paranoid for now :ninja:
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    Nah keep talking to him, I'm sure he's just trying to seem like he's not overly keen when he is. Plus FB chat is ***** lol
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    (Original post by cornford4)
    Nah keep talking to him, I'm sure he's just trying to seem like he's not overly keen when he is. Plus FB chat is ***** lol
    The cheeky sod is not even trying to hide the fact that he is online as as it comes up whenever he becomes "friends" with someone

    Anyhoo will play it by ear but it is frustrating
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    tbh it might be that he's nervous, and needs time to think about his reponse. To a lot of people, flirting or even just chatting with a potential gf/bf via texts/emails isn't something that immediately comes naturally, so maybe he's just taking his time finding the right words? Or trying not to seem too keen?
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    Maybe I am being negative but I just feel that he cant be bothered since I am not present there and then
 
 
 
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