and she knew i like her, it wsa obvious to anyone who saw us. I left it too long and made a mistake, and she lost interest. I never intended to say anythign to her about my feelgins anyway, but she asked me if i liked her recently, so i told the truth. Her reply was that she'd been interested before, and she asked if i still liker. I told her i did, things haven't been awkward at all after our conversation though.
the mistake - i have a pretty unstable home life, was angry about it, and acted like a **** on a bus ride when i was with her, nearly got into a fight with a couple of chavs. I just felt a bit reckless because of how rough things were at home at the time. The thing that got to me is that she seems to think that's how i cat all the time, and says that's what put her off, but it was completely out of character for me.
Do i give up and accept that I'm lucky to have her as a friend? Does the fact that she WAS interested mean that she might be again if i try?
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- Thread Starter
- 15-02-2010 00:29
- 15-02-2010 00:32
I think you should explain to her why you acted like that on the bus. I think she probs would still be interested in you- worth a try hey.
- 15-02-2010 00:39
Sounds like she still likes you to me... You might aswell try
- 15-02-2010 00:42
Fight for her? Try everything in your power to convince her that it was out of character, and if your comfortable maybe mention the reasoning for the way you acted so she knows its not just because you was been a utter d1ck.
- 15-02-2010 00:52
Play it cool. Say "I am sorry for how I acted, and I never meant to make you feel awkward. I would rather have you as a friend than not have you at all".
Then start chasing a different tail, while still seeing her regular enough. But don't make any moves, just be a friend.
She'll be riding your face within a week.