The Student Room Group

Just..can't...keep...my...mouth...shut

Grrrrrrrrrrrr...
So i know what the logical thing to do would be - shut up and be supportive of your friend right?
But...
and here comes the rant......

One of my best mates used to go out with another of my best mates for about 1.5 years...they split up about 2 years ago and he's never really gotten over her...not long ago when i had split from a bf messily, she got together with my ex behind my back, dispite promising me time over that nothing would happen. Since then, we've not been friends and i dont trust her. I know things she's said about this guy (my friend) and i know that she just wants someone to want her all the time. I dont think she has a genuine feeling for my mate and it makes me so mad..they've got back together and yeah i am jealous because it means i'll see less of him, and she's going to be there when i want to spend time with my lad mates. I can't stress how much i dislike her. But he loves her. and now is falling out with me because i dont like her and make my opinions known.
He's just said "u kno that if u n ***** cant get on. then that puts a big wall between me n u for the most part... do u really hate her that much that ur prepared to lose our friendship?"

I'm loving it how its all my fault and i have to lose out :frown:
Reply 1
If man love woman, man push friend out of way to be with woman!

See?
Reply 2
Yes...and it truly sucks ass.
Reply 3
This is why I never go out with friends or friends or friends (not that I go out with that many people). It might be the easy solution but that's the whole problem: I don't want to go out with someone just because it was easy to.
Reply 4
at the end of the day itl end in tears let him get on with it and he'l come back enventually
Reply 5
Kavanne
If man love woman, man push friend out of way to be with woman!

See?


Siiigh, and of course men in general are the sexist pigs that care about nothing but...

Allrigth, I know this was a joke post, but still. :frown:
Reply 6
back off a bit, he'll miss you and come crawling back to ur genuine friendship. If he doesn't, he's just an idiot and you shouldn't bother with him again. Remember (warning this is v. corny but TRUE) true friends will never make you cry, and the people that do make you cry are never worth the tears.
Reply 7
this so called friend of yours, if she is what u say she is, will find someone she thinks is better and go off with him.
but.... what u need to understand, she may be only doing this to irritate you. i mean im sure she fancies him, but if u keep showing both of them u dont like them being together, they will both try harder to make it work, especially her.

pretend you dont care anymore, and tell him ur happy hes finally back with her and if hes happy your happy.
sooner or later they will break up. :smile:
Reply 8
where have you been!
Reply 9
Good advice peoples...
Hmmf..only thing i can do really, just let them get on with it. He knows full well how i feel so carrying on bitching wont do anything. i dont know what it is about that girl. Yeah shes kinda pretty in a generic way, but she's chunky and nothing special. plus she never smiles. and she has no personality. and shes not funny. Yet everyone fancies her. Harumf.
Reply 10
but ive spoken to a lot of people, guys included, who dont see the attraction either. but still she seems to hold them in her sway. and....its not that shes easy - it took her a year to sleep with my mate..