Relationship Secrets?

I arranged with my g/f to meet her in a weeks time. She agreed and confirmed this morning, and then just 15mins ago she calls up and goes she cnat make it and for the reason she sais I go uni things to prepare for etc. Then she goes if you booked it its ok but if you haven’t I cant make it.

I go well whats the problem why not? She goes something come up and I cant say right now.
I go ok ill talk to you about it later, she said just cancel it if you aint booked it.

She calls back and I asked why cant you come and she goes something really important has come up, I go why did you say that you had uni preparations?
She said she had her mates about thtas why, and she didnt want them to know.
Any how she hasn’t given me an answer, ive kind of already booked the tickets as I asked a mate to but I didn’t want to tell her until I get the answer.

Seriously though at times my g/f can be so understanding and other times she acts like a total different person.

Should she be like this with me or what?

She jsut called me right now, and I said to her why you being like this?
Why the secret especially when we just discussed in the morning?
At first she said nothing I can’t say, then said is it regarding family she was like yes (dunno if she just said that so I back off).
Then she goes to me, do you trust me?.
I go yes, then she goes why make a big thing out of it. I said I will meet you if you have booked it.

I dont mind not meeting her but if its so important surely she wouldn’t come anyway.
She sounded pissed off so I said why you annoyed, she goes I aint.
I go listened im just trying to understand why you doing this as its all planned and your all annoyed when I should be.
Then she goes I wasn’t annoyed until you asked me.

I go im making so much effort here, and there’s you whos always making effort with others so you don’t hurt them but with me its totally opposite.
She goes she can’t be bothered and she going to read her book.
I go fine and she left.

Bloody hell, what can a guy do.

Reply 1

-TMG-

Hmm well since I dont know your gf its hard to say.

However, my ex was like this. Things coming up, being very private and sneaky etc. One time she wasn't talking to me and I found out she was talking to some other lad instead, this 'Craig' who she don't fancy. But she was talkin to him so much I thought somet must be up. So I told her what for and left her. I don't need the drama.

If your girl is like that, and my ex really did change personalities, I'm sure she had a personality disorder, then just leave her. It's a lot easier without worrying about someone else's behaviour. Good luck.

Ask her, but if you don't get a straight answer, leave her, or at least beware.

Reply 2

tillgii

100% she aint cheating or talking to another guy. I knwo that for a fact but regarding her family she always so seneative.

Reply 3

blissy

tillgii

100% she aint cheating or talking to another guy. I knwo that for a fact but regarding her family she always so seneative.

You can't be sure.
I was exactly like that with my last bf cause I just went off him, didn't want to see him or talk to him and :redface:

I liked someone else.

Reply 4

CherryGarcia

was a little hard to read this, but as I can suppose may be she is upset with u for some reason? Try to talk to her, make her relax, be funny with jokes. It will help to relax her and tell her the truth. The worse thing is that she met another guy...if it is true..I am sorry for you...girls are strange....but guys are strange as well, trust me :smile:

Reply 5

tillgii

nah our whole relationship regarding her family she woudl keep quiet on, even before we started going out we had a major fall out and it was down to family issues which she later spoek to me about.

She feels she cant talk to any 1 regarding family, Shes been through a rough time but I dunno if its truth or not. All I know she was teller her mates (today) about how its gonna be 8 months soon with me and her.

I doubt it very very much she would cheat, as she always spoek n about that ina very angry manner. I guesss shes just a really complicated person to understand at times.