does any1 else feel lonely right now?

i know exactly how you feel. Im the same i want to be intermate with someone, but not just anyone. Its been a while since i was in a relationship with anyone, my last break up took me months to deal with and then uni filled the gap.

Since theres no uni or anyone to go out with im resorted to keeping myself occupied online. I was ment to go out this afternoon, but it never came off.

Reply 2

AngelofnoColour

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poptart86

Any tips on how to overcome my lonely phase :frown:

I need something to occupy my days, and also to make me feel a lil bit more loved :biggrin:

Chocolate eating will occupy your days and chatting to me will make you feel more loved, aww :love:

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buttons7

i can't give you tips, but i can empathise. other than my cousins (who i'm pretty close to) i haven't really seen many of my friends this holiday, and now all of my good friends (cousins included) have gone abroad! actually, that's not true. i rang two of them yesterday to see what they're up to and they'd gone camping in wales. me, ostracised leper? never!

i wouldn't worry about the gentleman situation (or lack thereof), i'm sure someone will turn up. actually, i'm not completely sure, because i am practically a professional single person, even though i certainly wouldn't object to company :s:

. but i wish you the best of luck. and if you can't find anyone, then enjoy having some time to yourself... read a book! sleep a lot!

Reply 4

Darth

my opinion: channel ur frustration into something productive (eg cooking, sports, readin, etc...

Reply 5

tate

yeah i know what you mean, couples are everywhere these days lol

Reply 6

Harv616

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yep im lonly...............can see why tho :rolleyes:

Reply 7

OP

Glory

i know exactly how you feel. Im the same i want to be intermate with someone, but not just anyone. Its been a while since i was in a relationship with anyone, my last break up took me months to deal with and then uni filled the gap.
Since theres no uni or anyone to go out with im resorted to keeping myself occupied online. I was meant to go out this afternoon, but it never came off.

yeah cos when I had a boyfriend i never had to worry about filling my days cos I spent them all with him.
Now I have hardly anything to do, and plus I havent found a job yet so im getting so bored with nothing worthwhile to do!

Reply 8

OP

chocolate eating sounds good!! oops, ive just remember Im meant to be on a healthy eating plan this week :p:

Reply 9

Sami C

Only started feeling it now my best mate has a girlfriend...*sighs*....i'd shag a tree if it promised to talk to me for five minutes...*sighs*....

Reply 10

Glory

i spent most of my summer with my ex last year, we'd go for walks on the chase and mess around at his house. Nothing like that this year, the weather isnt even remotely as good as last year either.

Reply 11

OP

yeah, I think its worse cos last summer I practically never left my ex boyfriends side! Now I have no-one to rent out DVDs with, go for a meal etc.. oh im so desperate its unreal!
All i can say is my next boyfriend better watch out cos I'll be trying to make up for lost time lol :p:

Reply 12

ChocoVet

buttons7

i wouldn't worry about the gentleman situation (or lack thereof), i'm sure someone will turn up. actually, i'm not completely sure, because i am practically a professional single person, even though i certainly wouldn't object to company :s:

. but i wish you the best of luck. and if you can't find anyone, then enjoy having some time to yourself... read a book! sleep a lot!

I'm the same in this respect! I've been single for a while now but strangely enough I don't feel lonely at all. I guess I'm just quite happy on my own - I can always find stuff for myself to do, be it reading, painting, watching videos, etc. Try to keep yourself *really* busy, so busy that you have no time to think about anything else. Is there anything you really enjoy doing?

Reply 13

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Sami C

Only started feeling it now my best mate has a girlfriend...*sighs*....i'd shag a tree if it promised to talk to me for five minutes...*sighs*....

its horrible isnt it when your mates suddenly forget you even exist! My "best" mate text me for the first time in ages a couple of days ago. And do you know???!!! Cos she and her boyf had had an argument and she needed someone friendly to chat to :rolleyes:

Reply 14

OP

ChocoVet

Is there anything you really enjoy doing?

Well yeah but you kind of need a boyfriend to do it :wink:

only joking, I enjoy writing and drawing and stuff.
i guess its just the fact that I miss having someone to be with me while i do things really.
Theres nothing better than having someone to share everything with :p:

Reply 15

shavenwookiee

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poptart86

Im not trying to be a drama queen or anything cos its not that big a deal, but I havent had a proper boyfriend for ages now, and I really miss being close to someone.
What makes it worse is that everywhere I turn I see couples having a really good time.. and plus at least half of my mates have blokes so in the holidays ive not had many people to meet up with!
The only thing that keeps me going is the thought that one day i might meet someone special (better be soon tho!)
And plus Im feeling quite sexually frustrated right now as well!! Im not the sort of girl who would just shag anyone to get some (even though there is a guy I know quite well that I prob could have sex with if I wanted to) but its getting unbearable!

Any tips on how to overcome my lonely phase :frown:

I need something to occupy my days, and also to make me feel a lil bit more loved :biggrin:

Two words: Rampant Rabbit.

Reply 16

Annik

poptart86

and plus at least half of my mates have blokes so in the holidays ive not had many people to meet up with!

dont worry... i feel exactly the same way.. my best mate got a bf and i hardly see her! There is someone spesh in my life tho but its kinda complicated and i get really down and lonely.. My advice would be to try find one friend that has some time and go to the cinema, bowling, clubbing and just have a good time! Things will look up soon. It's probs best to hang with someone who u can laugh about the couples with.. Failing that - going to clubs etc, you mite b able to meet someone?
Good luck and keep smiling.. :biggrin:

(dont do what i do and listen to sad songs or watch chick flicks!)

Reply 17

Annik

Sami C

Only started feeling it now my best mate has a girlfriend...*sighs*....i'd shag a tree if it promised to talk to me for five minutes...*sighs*....

And btw poptart - your going to uni soon.. :biggrin:

ur bound to meet lots of new people

Reply 18

ChocoVet

poptart86

Well yeah but you kind of need a boyfriend to do it :wink:

only joking, I enjoy writing and drawing and stuff.
i guess its just the fact that I miss having someone to be with me while i do things really.
Theres nothing better than having someone to share everything with :p:

Reading and writing sound good :smile:

Maybe do some sports as well? Uses up loads of your energy :smile:

Can't say I can relate to your feelings, as I quite like doing stuff on my own, but I guess everybody's different.

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OP