I just wanted to pass the wisdom on which I received from another. You may not like it, you may think I generalise a bit about women, you might just think im wrong completely, if so then bugg** off
I try and help and you moan at me. Give me a break
Firstly, everything girls tell you about what they want in a man or whatever is..crap, no offence to you girls but essentially girls don't know what they want, many may say : I want a lovely guy who watches girly movies all day and is nice to me, does everything I say etc... But in fact if you had a girlfriend like this, wouldn't you get bored? Wouldn't you wonder why she acts so ...needy? Wouldn't you think "ooh maybe I could get better if im treated like god". What women really want is a man not a sweet guy, sometimes you have to say no, sometimes you have to turn up late to dates, don't buy drinks for women your not dating.... the idea is to be a bit of a challenge and don't take any crap. This is why you see all those idiots going out with the most attractive girl in school. But no worries you don't have to be like that, all you have to do is go for the middle path be nice but strong. Be passionate about life, girls shouldn't take up your life.
In summary: Don't be a doormat but don't be a bast***
thats all im going to say about that, it sounds quite harsh and when I first saw this stuff I was shocked but it's all true. I have a lot more to say on this topic but this isn't a dating site
, if you want me to talk more just pm me and ill put you in the right direction
Shyness: All I can say about this really is the only way to break it is through this program that I found. Essentially I got all of this stuff from the same source actually, maybe some of you will recognise it.
If your shy do this:
1) Get a job involving the public
2) Get out more if you can
Obvious stuff really. But here's the thing that if you manage to achieve will change you:
In the next week your challenge is to say hi to 50 people on the street/park/mall/anywhere. But try and keep to strangers. It's hard but just try and try, get a lift to a town with no money and arrange to be picked up in an hours time! Then you have no choice (Not recommended for younger people).
Then the next week make 15 short conversations with people.
Then the next week try and meet as many people as you can and try and get them to meet you again. It's the only way.
, PM me any harsh messages and I won't hesitate to report you to a moderator.