How do nI tell a guy I don&#x27;t like him

third_and_first

you could try this

"i dont like you"

hope this helped cheers im always there for a person in need

i was kinda thinking that too.. no point pussy footing around, you'll only end up backing out.

Reply 5

SciFi25

sophieliz

seriously-I have been on/off wiv a guy for about 2 months but he is getting serious but I don't want the relationshiop anymore. I've never dumped a guy before.

Just tell that you don't want to see him anymore. Its easy. Just you might want to phrase it a little better to save his feelings. I have never been dumped or dumped anyone so i wouldn't really know!!

I'll shut up now.

Reply 6

adamu

Glory

i was kinda thinking that too.. no point pussy footing around, you'll only end up backing out.

To an extent - the whole reason for her thread is because she it concerned about how the man will feel. Simply saying that is not concerned behaviour. If she cares about his feelings she will take my advice.

Reply 7

adamu

To an extent - the whole reason for her thread is because she it concerned about how the man will feel. Simply saying that is not concerned behaviour. If she cares about his feelings she will take my advice.

i know it might be harsh, but the walking on egg shells is still gonna end up with the same result, a chap that doesnt want the relationship to end, it doesnt matter how you do it, hes likely to be in denial. Ive had experience with this, i tried doing it the softly softy way and ending up doing it the harsh way. By all means try and put him down gently but if hes as despotted as i think he is, he wont let you finish it.

Reply 8

If I was the guy I would probably want you to be honest. But that does not mean you have to be harsh, if he is mature enough he will perfectly understand.

Reply 9

masie86

well if you were friends before you could say that you dont want to ruin the friendship... thats always a good one, not too harsh, but gets rid of the problem. :wink:

good luck with however you end up doing it!

Reply 10

Sami C

Be honest. More pain in short-term, less in long-term.

Reply 11

OMGWTF

Please don't string him on, if it goes on for a long time and then you tell him it will shatter his self confidence. You need to do the right thing and tell him

*Agrees completely*

Reply 12

masie86

well if you were friends before you could say that you dont want to ruin the friendship... thats always a good one, not too harsh, but gets rid of the problem. :wink:

good luck with however you end up doing it!

Hummm, we all know that excuse and I really think that it's lame.
No being honest is the best solution.

Talk to him and make things clear as soon as possible.

Reply 13

se77en

how about 'i dont like you'

Reply 14

se77en

how about 'i dont like you'

Ask yourself first of all if you would like to be told that?

Reply 15

flick

Ask yourself first of all if you would like to be told that?

well personally id like. I dont feel the same about you that i did 2 months ago. I dont like you as a bf/gf i like you as a friend.

Reply 16

Glory

well personally id like. I dont feel the same about you that i did 2 months ago. I dont like you as a bf/gf i like you as a friend.

Sounds fair to me :smile:

simple and gets to the point without being (too) harsh.

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