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Why are some girls so heartless :(
Anon or delete please.
I really genuinly liked this girl and I thought it was going great between us, she txted me almost everyday and I was always nice to her and I always made her laugh. She gave me lots of signs she liked me but also some that she didn't. So I was really confused and had no idea where I stood. So I choose to remain positive.
But then today she totally crushed me. There was me feeling all confident and happy sitting next to her then she starts talking to her friend about this other guy making sure I heard every word. She goes on about how cute he is and his smile, how hes rich, how he's 21 an has a job(I'm 19 and unemployed. She's 16 BTW) how he kissed her on the cheek and other bull like that. Then she starts talking about some personality features(which I won't specify) and asks her friend if she would go out with someone who was like that(her friend said no) she was blatantly talking about me. All that RIGHT NEXT TO ME. I LITERALLY had to sit there for an hour listening to it all! It was bloody painful, I just sat there doing stuff to keep me distracted until the lesson was over. To make it worse I was also sitting next to all my mates(who all know I like her) so she also made me look like such a loser in front of my mates!
To add insult to injury on facebook she joins some stupid groups which are blatantly about me, like "Sorry I missed your call, I felt awkward answerin in front of my other link." I don't even know what the hell a link means but how dare she call me her link!
How can she be so heartless. Do some girls get kicks out of getting male attention then distroying them or something? I'm not even gonna make any effort with her anymore unless it's for work. Unfortunately I have to work with her for a project and probably future projects as well so all I can do is forget about it and act like normal or it will be so awkward......
I know what you lot are gonna say, "Cool Story Bro!" and "Blog it!" Well I just felt like I had to get this out of my system I feel pretty crap right now!
I really genuinly liked this girl and I thought it was going great between us, she txted me almost everyday and I was always nice to her and I always made her laugh. She gave me lots of signs she liked me but also some that she didn't. So I was really confused and had no idea where I stood. So I choose to remain positive.
But then today she totally crushed me. There was me feeling all confident and happy sitting next to her then she starts talking to her friend about this other guy making sure I heard every word. She goes on about how cute he is and his smile, how hes rich, how he's 21 an has a job(I'm 19 and unemployed. She's 16 BTW) how he kissed her on the cheek and other bull like that. Then she starts talking about some personality features(which I won't specify) and asks her friend if she would go out with someone who was like that(her friend said no) she was blatantly talking about me. All that RIGHT NEXT TO ME. I LITERALLY had to sit there for an hour listening to it all! It was bloody painful, I just sat there doing stuff to keep me distracted until the lesson was over. To make it worse I was also sitting next to all my mates(who all know I like her) so she also made me look like such a loser in front of my mates!
To add insult to injury on facebook she joins some stupid groups which are blatantly about me, like "Sorry I missed your call, I felt awkward answerin in front of my other link." I don't even know what the hell a link means but how dare she call me her link!
How can she be so heartless. Do some girls get kicks out of getting male attention then distroying them or something? I'm not even gonna make any effort with her anymore unless it's for work. Unfortunately I have to work with her for a project and probably future projects as well so all I can do is forget about it and act like normal or it will be so awkward......
I know what you lot are gonna say, "Cool Story Bro!" and "Blog it!" Well I just felt like I had to get this out of my system I feel pretty crap right now!
Reply 2
She sounds like a bitch. After status (I mean 21 when she's 16!) of having an older boyfriend.
She probably does get kicks out of it, having the power.
But hey it's one girl mate, who your best without! Best finding that out before you got close to her
Better luck next time
all the best
She probably does get kicks out of it, having the power.
But hey it's one girl mate, who your best without! Best finding that out before you got close to her
Better luck next time
all the best
Reply 5
Well to be fair, she doesn't actually know that you like her, does she? Besides, what's a 19 year old doing in the same lesson as a 16 year old?
Reply 6
She probably enjoyed the attention you gave her.
She's obviously very immature by doing silly things like that on facebook,
and what she did in front of you was very cruel.
You're best off moving on tbh.
She's obviously very immature by doing silly things like that on facebook,
and what she did in front of you was very cruel.
You're best off moving on tbh.
Reply 7
Jemmmy
Aw 
What a bitch.
Better off without her OP.
What a bitch.
Better off without her OP.
Great. Now I want Eggs.
Reply 8
Sorry dude, all I could think of from your title...
In all seriousness, you'll do fine without her from the sound of it, just try keep contact to a minimum if you have to work with her. Delete her off your facebook, relax, move on, don't generalise about girls because you met a rubbish one.
Reply 9
She does know I liked her, I made it pretty obvious to her and I asked her out. she said she was rly buisy with something, I didnt believe her at first and was ready to move on as I got rejected. But she's such a manipulative ***** and made it so believable that she genuinly was busy, I even helped her with it a bit! I still thought she was interested after that.(I was stupid I admit)
About me being 19 in the same lesson as a 16 year old....I wanted to do a different course so I'm with younger people....long story...
About me being 19 in the same lesson as a 16 year old....I wanted to do a different course so I'm with younger people....long story...
Reply 11
Jemmmy
Opps sorry 
My sig has that effect on so many people
Maybe time to change it
My sig has that effect on so many people
Maybe time to change it
I ate well already though. **** it.
Nahh maybe breakfast tomorrow
Boiled Egg and toast soilders!Reply 12
16 year old girls are just stupid as hell !! They really need to get a life !! I'm 16 and i know what other girls my age are like !! Can't even get a straight answer from them! 
Dude, you're better off without her...
Dude, you're better off without her...
Reply 13
They're not heartless, you're just spineless and so they exploit you.
Reply 14
They just love the attention.
Reply 15
Anonymous
She does know I liked her, I made it pretty obvious to her and I asked her out. she said she was rly buisy with something, I didnt believe her at first and was ready to move on as I got rejected. But she's such a manipulative ***** and made it so believable that she genuinly was busy, I even helped her with it a bit! I still thought she was interested after that.(I was stupid I admit)
About me being 19 in the same lesson as a 16 year old....I wanted to do a different course so I'm with younger people....long story...
About me being 19 in the same lesson as a 16 year old....I wanted to do a different course so I'm with younger people....long story...
It happens dude, all you can do is move on, there would be a girl out there who would appreciate everything, just because your 'YOU'
Reply 16
😭 Bro I went through the very same thing bout a week ago, this girl from my class has been my crush for 2 years now and this year we got really close to a point where Everyone started to think we're dating, to cut the story short, on her birthday (I was the only one who got her a present which was a medium size teddy which I carried around the school the whole morning and a box of sweets and chocolates) she was happy and all, hugged me and promised to give me a kiss after school...but then during break time I was chillin with my bro's and some girls and she came and sat next to me, I thought she came to me but she didn't even look at me, she started talking loudly to her friend about a ***** that got a job which happens to be her boyfriend, she seemed so happy for him and even mentioned that he was taking her out during the weekend, my friend laughed at me cos I was telling them about how much she liked me everyday, girls are cruel...now I just smoke weed and forget about it all.
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