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Trying to understand a girl
Hi guys, me again! Personal life is weird at the moment (once more) so I thought Id present the info to you and see what you all think.
Right, one of my female friends has been away for the past two weeks, but a few days into it she text me and said "hey your baby girl has credit" then proceeded to just chat bout random crap. Anyway she got back yesterday and we spent ages talking to each other over MSN, she invited me to start viewing cam so I accepted. She kept telling me that she missed me for the past two weeks and then the cam connected. Quelle surprise, she was in her pyjamas (she normally is whenever we cam) and we just chatted randomly, the usual stuff, what she had been up to, what i had been up to, then i was treated to a full display of the new clothes she had bought a full two hours as i had to give my opinion on each of them, including the belts.
Conversation turned towards other things and I just jokingly said that i wanted to see her in something other than pyjamas, she told me that in liverpool to see means to go out so i said "well, if thats what i have to do then ok" i got "seriously" as a reply, and i asked if she thought we'd work, she said she didnt know, then that she wouldnt say no to going with me though. We said our goodnights and everything, then she signed off.
Today however I wasnt feeling my usual chirpy self as Id been up all night on the phone to various people. I took a bit longer than usual to reply to her and she kept asking if I was in a bad mood with her, i assured her i wasnt, and we started talking about random stuff. A bit ago we had a bit of an argument about something stupid, i think it was a tv show actually, and she disappeared off MSN.
However this same girl has said on many occassions that she wants to go and see different films with me and she wants to go to London and manchester to see two shows at the theatre. She even once said that she wanted to straighten my hair
Anyway, she asked me if I fancied her, I lied and said no. I dont know why, maybe because I get the feeling that she sees me as a "gay mate" even though she knows full well that Im perfectly straight (not that Im homophobic).
Anyway, help please, and sorry about the long post.
Right, one of my female friends has been away for the past two weeks, but a few days into it she text me and said "hey your baby girl has credit" then proceeded to just chat bout random crap. Anyway she got back yesterday and we spent ages talking to each other over MSN, she invited me to start viewing cam so I accepted. She kept telling me that she missed me for the past two weeks and then the cam connected. Quelle surprise, she was in her pyjamas (she normally is whenever we cam) and we just chatted randomly, the usual stuff, what she had been up to, what i had been up to, then i was treated to a full display of the new clothes she had bought a full two hours as i had to give my opinion on each of them, including the belts.
Conversation turned towards other things and I just jokingly said that i wanted to see her in something other than pyjamas, she told me that in liverpool to see means to go out so i said "well, if thats what i have to do then ok" i got "seriously" as a reply, and i asked if she thought we'd work, she said she didnt know, then that she wouldnt say no to going with me though. We said our goodnights and everything, then she signed off.
Today however I wasnt feeling my usual chirpy self as Id been up all night on the phone to various people. I took a bit longer than usual to reply to her and she kept asking if I was in a bad mood with her, i assured her i wasnt, and we started talking about random stuff. A bit ago we had a bit of an argument about something stupid, i think it was a tv show actually, and she disappeared off MSN.
However this same girl has said on many occassions that she wants to go and see different films with me and she wants to go to London and manchester to see two shows at the theatre. She even once said that she wanted to straighten my hair
Anyway, she asked me if I fancied her, I lied and said no. I dont know why, maybe because I get the feeling that she sees me as a "gay mate" even though she knows full well that Im perfectly straight (not that Im homophobic).
Anyway, help please, and sorry about the long post.
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Ok she obviously likes you, and you obviously like her.
Just be honest with her and more things shall happen.
As a female, I can tell you that females are annoying and they take everything way too seriously, don't have senses of humor, plus hold grudges.
If you were gay, I wouldn't blame you. Males are much better friends.
Just be honest with her and more things shall happen.
As a female, I can tell you that females are annoying and they take everything way too seriously, don't have senses of humor, plus hold grudges.
If you were gay, I wouldn't blame you. Males are much better friends.
Reply 2
saying you didn't fancy her was a bloody stupid thing to say, what where you thinking?
but anyway she blatantly like you, get in there
but anyway she blatantly like you, get in there
SlyPie
Ok she obviously likes you, and you obviously like her.
Just be honest with her and more things shall happen.
As a female, I can tell you that females are annoying and they take everything way too seriously, don't have senses of humor, plus hold grudges.
If you were gay, I wouldn't blame you. Males are much better friends.
Just be honest with her and more things shall happen.
As a female, I can tell you that females are annoying and they take everything way too seriously, don't have senses of humor, plus hold grudges.
If you were gay, I wouldn't blame you. Males are much better friends.
Tell me about it, I like another member on here spend many an hour each month telling my female friends that their now ex wasnt worth their time, isnt worth it and all that crap.
I had an ex gf crying to me the other day that someone she used to fancy/thought she loved has now told her he is getting engaged.
Reply 5
Go for it, she likes you, just ask her.
silent p......?
Go for it, she likes you, just ask her.
Maybe I should have put this in the OP but I dont really think i could as she has told me about her past sexploits, and therefore I wouldnt feel comfortable with doing anything as she seems abit too open mouthed (and not in the good way
)Reply 7
deej2
Maybe I should have put this in the OP but I dont really think i could as she has told me about her past sexploits, and therefore I wouldnt feel comfortable with doing anything as she seems abit too open mouthed (and not in the good way )
)was she open about who she had sex with or just about what she's done in a sexual relationship? if it's the latter then what does it matter who she tells?
and maybe she only tells you because she is comfortable talking to you
serious narb
was she open about who she had sex with or just about what she's done in a sexual relationship? if it's the latter then what does it matter who she tells?
and maybe she only tells you because she is comfortable talking to you
and maybe she only tells you because she is comfortable talking to you
just about what she'd done.
I seriously hope that it is only me she tells and she only tells me because she is comfortable talking to me, otherwise she is just weird IMHO
Reply 9
deej2
just about what she'd done.
I seriously hope that it is only me she tells and she only tells me because she is comfortable talking to me, otherwise she is just weird IMHO
I seriously hope that it is only me she tells and she only tells me because she is comfortable talking to me, otherwise she is just weird IMHO
nah it's not really wierd, you'd be suprised about how open some girls are about their sexual experiences, a lot of them are worse than blokes. And at least she isn't mentioning any names, so if she does tell any of her friends it wont be obvious she is talking about you.
Reply 10
deej2
Maybe I should have put this in the OP but I dont really think i could as she has told me about her past sexploits, and therefore I wouldnt feel comfortable with doing anything as she seems abit too open mouthed (and not in the good way )
)If you both like each other so much you'll only regret it later.
Reply 12
deej2
Regret what?
not acting on your feelings I would imagine.....
Reply 15
deej2
I was thinking that.
Ah well, she reckons we'll be spending alot of our free periods at colelge together.
Ah well, she reckons we'll be spending alot of our free periods at colelge together.
Get in there my son, you only have two years at college anyway.
deej2
Tell me about it, I like another member on here spend many an hour each month telling my female friends that their now ex wasnt worth their time, isnt worth it and all that crap.
I had an ex gf crying to me the other day that someone she used to fancy/thought she loved has now told her he is getting engaged.
I had an ex gf crying to me the other day that someone she used to fancy/thought she loved has now told her he is getting engaged.
Hear hear...It must be difficult being a straight male.
At least you are nice enough to still be friends with your ex gfs. Most guys would just ignore them, which is what I would do if i were a guy.
SlyPie
Hear hear...It must be difficult being a straight male.
At least you are nice enough to still be friends with your ex gfs. Most guys would just ignore them, which is what I would do if i were a guy.
At least you are nice enough to still be friends with your ex gfs. Most guys would just ignore them, which is what I would do if i were a guy.
It is exceedingly difficult being a straight male!
I dont see the point in ignoring ex gfs, there is no point in pretending nothing happened between you, get over it and get on with life.
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