What should I do?

Okay, I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my current gf for 3 years now and we've got on fine. But the other night I was out with one of my mates (who is gay), I was really really drunk and we ended up going back to his and doing it. Before that I'd never even looked at a bloke yet since then I just have a feeling of wanting to do it again. I can't exactly talk to my gf about it and I don't know what to do.

Reply 1

Jack Twist

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Maybe your Bi.

Reply 2

dmitrij_savicki

thats insane

Reply 3

Cool_Lad

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dmitrij_savicki

thats insane

I know!

Reply 4

Emerald

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well, u've gotta think about why you want to do it again and whether or not u could possibly be bi. if u realise that ur not into girls anymore then u have to tell ur girlfriend cos its not fair on her or to urself. this mate of urs will he tell anyone or can u trust him?

Reply 5

Cool_Lad

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Ramy

well, u've gotta think about why you want to do it again and whether or not u could possibly be bi. if u realise that ur not into girls anymore then u have to tell ur girlfriend cos its not fair on her or to urself. this mate of urs will he tell anyone or can u trust him?

i think i can trust him but he keeps texting me saying 'the other night was amazing when can we do it again'. I do wanna do it again but i dont wanna be gay and i still like my gf.

Reply 6

Emerald

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i'm sorry to say this but if u do wanna do it again then deep down u do wanna be gay. if u still like ur girlfriend then maybe ur bi

Reply 7

Luize

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are you attracted to your gf?
are you attracted to the guy?

You could be bi...nothing unusual.
Though cheating on your gf isn't a nice thing to do...maybe talk to your friend and tell him you don't want to cheat on her...

Reply 8

Emerald

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i guess u could always tell het u wanna a break or time out or something and then try work everything out. in that time out time i guess u could sleep with the guy again and then see how u feel. since u were on a break then technically maybe it wuld be ok

Reply 9

Cool_Lad

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Ramy

i'm sorry to say this but if u do wanna do it again then deep down u do wanna be gay. if u still like ur girlfriend then maybe ur bi

but what do i do? do i go and see him again, talk to my gf or what?

Reply 10

Jack Twist

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Cool_Lad

but what do i do? do i go and see him again, talk to my gf or what?

Sorry to sound rude...but have you ever had sex with your girlfriend?

Reply 11

Cool_Lad

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Luize

are you attracted to your gf?
are you attracted to the guy?

You could be bi...nothing unusual.
Though cheating on your gf isn't a nice thing to do...maybe talk to your friend and tell him you don't want to cheat on her...