Sociable people

Hmm I think of myself as extremely sociable - I have a boyfriend and plenty of friends from college and from going out and through other people etc. I spend loads of time going out and socialising - at least 3/4 days in the week I would do something with friends or boyf eg cinema/clubbing/or just chilling. but then im not a very heavy tsr user!

I've always wondered what TSR people are in real life. I guess the stereotype is that anyone who spends more than an hour on an internet forum, probably hasn't got a life.

I wouldn't consider myself as a very sociable person: not particularly shy but just not that good at being sociable and not too confident.

I don't have any friends in Manchester now It's really crap, all my friends from 6th form have left the country, I've failed to get a job so I can't meet anybody that way. It's just annoying because I don't even have anyone to go out with and make new friends. Totally a catch22 situation when you have no friends and don't goto school or have a job.

I have many friends, most of them Ive known since I was 11, and we're all really close, and always go out together. But that doesnt mean you're a more sociable person if you have friends, one of my mates is very sociable, she goes out with us all the time, but shes dead quiet and hardly talks and mixes. Me personally, I'm that type of person that is loud, confident and popular but only with those who I feel comfortable with, such as my mates, otherwise if I was alone and in a room full of people, I'd probably go and sit alone and wait for someone to approach me. Lol, no wonder I havent got a bf. I use TSR alot, more in the holidays, that doesnt mean I dont have a life.

Its quite annoying to be the center of attention, i dont like to be talked about by people. It just basically makes you more vulnerable to insults and all that stuff (ie. backbiting)

I've just realised I'm a pretty unsociable person: I come across as a bit aloof in uncomfortable situations, not necessarily shy, at times but mainly because I'm very stressed by the situation.

The trouble is, I've made appearing confident and comfortable, when I'm totally stressed out and worried inside, an art form (I landed a job at an investment bank a few months ago, as they thought I appeared totally confident . How wrong were they). I'm rarely myself and I'm a bit of a social chameleon and yes, I'm a bit messed up